This is what I do with my kids for fun now. It's been too long since I said hi, and someone asked about my kids.
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Dude in the background... is that the dj school teacher?This is what I do with my kids for fun now. It's been too long since I said hi, and someone asked about my kids.
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Kinda scary when a guy in a wife-beater is sitting behind a sign saying "all ages welcome". Just sayin.Dude in the background... is that the dj school teacher?
I got an IUD placed around 8 weeks postpartum so not planning to do that for a couple of years.l at least they're good for 5, but if we wait that long I'll be 38 which is past the age where risk goes up (35). it's actually risky to get pregnant too soon after you have a baby (I think ACOG says no sooner than 6 months and preferably after 18 months). hopefully by the time she's 18 months we'll be in a position to figure out if we can afford another (and with the IUD there hopefully won't be any more surprises)Geez hardly seems like it's been 6 months but congrats for a healthy baby.
All she needs now is a little brother or sister to grow up with.
I got an IUD placed around 8 weeks postpartum so not planning to do that for a couple of years.l at least they're good for 5, but if we wait that long I'll be 38 which is past the age where risk goes up (35). it's actually risky to get pregnant too soon after you have a baby (I think ACOG says no sooner than 6 months and preferably after 18 months). hopefully by the time she's 18 months we'll be in a position to figure out if we can afford another (and with the IUD there hopefully won't be any more surprises)
I got an IUD placed around 8 weeks postpartum so not planning to do that for a couple of years.l at least they're good for 5, but if we wait that long I'll be 38 which is past the age where risk goes up (35). it's actually risky to get pregnant too soon after you have a baby (I think ACOG says no sooner than 6 months and preferably after 18 months). hopefully by the time she's 18 months we'll be in a position to figure out if we can afford another (and with the IUD there hopefully won't be any more surprises)
Gravied for personal honesty.for me, life has been easier with 1
i cant imagine a bunch of kids in my life.
i guess it’s just not for me personally.
i love that it’s so easy to travel with 1.
i love that i can give 100% attention to 1
i dunno, he’s like my best friend and i have an incredible bond with him .. it’s hard to imagine splitting up all that love with more babes.
I KNOW ITS POSSIBLE OBVIOUSLY but i can’t imagine it.
my son has siblings on his dads side and when he comes home from the weekend visits he’s like OMG MAMÁ SO MUCH CHAOS! lol i guess he’s soooo used to our quiet easy laid back home where he is the centre of attention.
i have soooo much respect for women with lots of babies to love, i don’t know how they do it.
i guess i would have liked to have a daughter but i remember what a rotten daughter i was lololol
in my personal experience life is so easy with one ..
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When our kids get back from their dads we are the ones that get to say “but it was so quiet!”for me, life has been easier with 1
i cant imagine a bunch of kids in my life.
i guess it’s just not for me personally.
i love that it’s so easy to travel with 1.
i love that i can give 100% attention to 1
i dunno, he’s like my best friend and i have an incredible bond with him .. it’s hard to imagine splitting up all that love with more babes.
I KNOW ITS POSSIBLE OBVIOUSLY but i can’t imagine it.
my son has siblings on his dads side and when he comes home from the weekend visits he’s like OMG MAMÁ SO MUCH CHAOS! lol i guess he’s soooo used to our quiet easy laid back home where he is the centre of attention.
i have soooo much respect for women with lots of babies to love, i don’t know how they do it.
i guess i would have liked to have a daughter but i remember what a rotten daughter i was lololol
in my personal experience life is so easy with one ..
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I feel like I'd be good with two, but I absolutely want to wait a bit. Jason and his sibling were 5 years apart, and that's a bit much because you end up staying at very different stages until you're an adult, but maybe plan to try to be having another when she's like 2 or 3. and who knows, I she might turn into a holy terror and I'll decide I can't handle another. idk, I never had siblings and I always wished I did, but part of that may have been wanting someone to share my trauma so there was someone who understood that my "ugh, parents" feelings were valid (and, as an adult, I can see how wanting someone to exist solely to suffer with you is actually p fucked)for me, life has been easier with 1
i cant imagine a bunch of kids in my life.
i guess it’s just not for me personally.
i love that it’s so easy to travel with 1.
i love that i can give 100% attention to 1
i dunno, he’s like my best friend and i have an incredible bond with him .. it’s hard to imagine splitting up all that love with more babes.
I KNOW ITS POSSIBLE OBVIOUSLY but i can’t imagine it.
my son has siblings on his dads side and when he comes home from the weekend visits he’s like OMG MAMÁ SO MUCH CHAOS! lol i guess he’s soooo used to our quiet easy laid back home where he is the centre of attention.
i have soooo much respect for women with lots of babies to love, i don’t know how they do it.
i guess i would have liked to have a daughter but i remember what a rotten daughter i was lololol
in my personal experience life is so easy with one ..
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for me, life has been easier with 1
i cant imagine a bunch of kids in my life.
i guess it’s just not for me personally.
i love that it’s so easy to travel with 1.
i love that i can give 100% attention to 1
i dunno, he’s like my best friend and i have an incredible bond with him .. it’s hard to imagine splitting up all that love with more babes.
I KNOW ITS POSSIBLE OBVIOUSLY but i can’t imagine it.
my son has siblings on his dads side and when he comes home from the weekend visits he’s like OMG MAMÁ SO MUCH CHAOS! lol i guess he’s soooo used to our quiet easy laid back home where he is the centre of attention.
i have soooo much respect for women with lots of babies to love, i don’t know how they do it.
i guess i would have liked to have a daughter but i remember what a rotten daughter i was lololol
in my personal experience life is so easy with one ..
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Love doesn't get "split up", it just increases.