Thorn Bird said:i think that before you can give the gift of a complete self to someone else, you need to understand that the life you were given is for YOU. YOU have to learn how to live with YOURSELF. there's no guarantee that you will share YOUR life with someone else. you have to learn how to live your life, for yourself. when you're doing this, you figure out a lot about yourself, you find strength, you build your character. if you stop looking and focus on yourself, you have the potential to build a solid being. THEN, you are ready, IF the time comes, to give this AWESOME person to someone else as a GIFT. "look here...i'm A, B, C, D and E...this are the great things i can offer you...i've worked hard on these, and they won't be taken for granted. are you worthy of me, as i am to get you?" because the person who will be attracted to YOU as a strong, healthy, balanced person is a person you will probably be wanting to compliment who you are.
am i making sense?
Word up. Bubbles isn't there yet, so she shouldn't be worried about finding someone. She isn't happy with herself.