I don't see it that way. Sorry if that chafes your morals, but I'm not here to make Americans happy. I've gotten nothing but pissy self righteous attitudes from Americans, and my care for their wants, beliefs, morals, whatever, has completely evaporated.
I want nothing more than to either move back home to Australia, or move to France or Spain. But unfortunately Juli has two other children from her previous marriage that she can not simply take out of the country. I will not push her to leave her children behind for something I want, not need.
If I'm a guest here, then I'm the guest that was invited over, spat on, and is now stuck in there. I'm not happy about it. But that's the way it is.