Not to put too fine a point on it, but y'all are living in Wisconsin, like "Ron Johnson" territory.
Like, I could see living in Madison, but 20 miles outside of Madison in any direction, and I'd be deeply, deeply uncomfortable.
That said, while I haven't lost a single person this whole time (to COVID), but you still have my sympathies.
edit: if anything, the people I'm surrounded with are off the other side of the deep end ("the CDC isn't giving us the real numbers, we need to justify another lockdown now!")