Mean Mr. Mustard
Always shouts out something obscene
Bubbles said:
I'm not sure, but apparently it invoves a brand new house of my choice in - Florida thoguh
Into polygamy at all?
Bubbles said:
I'm not sure, but apparently it invoves a brand new house of my choice in - Florida thoguh
What's wierd is to think of how different my life would have been if I never got married, or divorced....Sarcasmo said:It makes us cry.
Thorn Bird said:(i'll teach you the ways of the ass someday.)
Thorn Bird said:i totally agree here, too. this day and age, who says that marriage is the right fit for everyone? (i feel the same about kids.) if you don't want kids, don't have 'em! if you don't want to get married, don't do it!
b_sinning said:I have a fear of going to jail and a big sweaty hairy guy telling me that same statement.
http://www.unmarried.org/common-law-marriage.htmlpa said:I do agree with this.
In the same sense what about this common law business. I've heard you can be concidered "Married" or equivelant.. Is this still something that can be enforced?
In most states in the United States** today, there's no such thing as common law marriage. No matter how many years you live together and how much fairy dust you sprinkle, you will never have a common law marriage. That's good news if you're worried about "accidentally" finding yourself married, but bad news if you wanted the perks of marriage without the paperwork.
In fifteen states and the District of Columbia (see below), though, common law marriages are recognized. If a man and a woman (same-sex marriages aren't recognized) live together and "intend to be married" by acting like they are married, telling people they are married, and doing the things married people do (using words like "husband" and "wife," filing joint tax returns, etc.), they become common law spouses. This gives them the same rights and responsibilities as people who got married the old-fashioned way, with a trip to City Hall and a wedding.
Thorn Bird said:my program helps prep for this exact situation. if you have an iron badonkadonk, there will be no fear.
Bubbles said:AAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA.....I love that word and haven't heard it in a while
When you file for marriage with the state, you are making people work on your behalf so that you can receive benefits.zengirl said:
How is society adversely effected by my divorce?
Bubbles said:
I'm not sure, but apparently it invoves a brand new house of my choice in - Florida thoguh
gottoys? said:Let me get this straight .. your parents will buy you a brand new house if you get married .. but right now you live in a scary neighborhood, can't afford car insurance and they own the company that fired you.
Your mom is pretty dam anxious to get you married!
Thorn Bird said:you need to tell them that you're a lesbian to get them off of your back. that's just insane. i hope you let what they say go in one ear and out the other.
Bubbles said:OMG that would be even worse. That sort of thing is absolutely not tolerated in that half of my family.
benefits?theacoustician said:When you file for marriage with the state, you are making people work on your behalf so that you can receive benefits.
You clog up the legal system with your divorce (messy one's especially) and take away resources that could have been used elsewhere.
Stuff like that. I could go on and on how you consume resources of the state because of starting and stopping a marriage, but hopefully you get the point. It isn't just about you at that point, you're involving the government, which involves everyone (much to Chikken's dismay).
Sorry but... Don't be a doormat. Think things clearly through. Decide what you want, because fuck it, nothing else really matters. When they "tell" you what to do just be honest. Of course by honest I mean in the most brutal way possible because that is generally the only way to get through to people. If they dont like it, it doesnt really matter. Your life, you make the descisions.Bubbles said:OMG that would be even worse. That sort of thing is absolutely not tolerated in that half of my family.
Thorn Bird said:it sounds like nothing much is. can't be single, can't be lesbian, can't be skinny, can't be fat...
sounds like a lot of hobobabble to me. i'm glad you're (slowly) getting out of such a toxic surrounding.
pa said:As much as i agree with you, if your at teh point that you are wanting to get married, you've already waited as long as you need to . its not like 90 percent of divorced couples went out and had some shotgun wedding.