He's telling a bunch of strangers. None of us will ever actually meet her. Why would it matter? If they'd asked him not to tell anyone sure that would be wrong, but Asa just seems excited and is sharing happy news.
Which is still a little silly. As I said, I was the second to last person to know. Hopefully she told dad in personI think she meant it wasn't her brothers news to tell anyone else so early...
Yes this.is she really young?
that applies in two ways: young meaning that she doesnt know that the risk of miscarrying and not even knowing it at that point is still really high, and on the more positive note, being really young, that chance is lower.
I was just trying to clarify what she meant.Which is still a little silly. As I said, I was the second to last person to know. Hopefully she told dad in person
You can have a food baby later.my coworkers are having babies
Not everyone likes to tell early though. Losing a pregnancy is rough and truthfully a large portion of those who knew didn't make it easier. In fact some made comments at times that would rip my heart out.Why? this is stupid. Tell whoever And whenever you want. If they do lose if they'll have support of those they love to help them. I've told family And friends between we took a test that morning to about a week after we had the result. Making the public Facebook announcement I waited a few more weeks.
beceause being that early is high risk.Why? this is stupid. Tell whoever And whenever you want. If they do lose if they'll have support of those they love to help them. I've told family And friends between we took a test that morning to about a week after we had the result. Making the public Facebook announcement I waited a few more weeks.
I think this is the reason caution is used. The medical risk of losing the pregnancy is considerably higher early on. Getting all excited so early is fine if it turns out there's no problems, but the docs will tell you the disappointment is greater if there are.i have suffered a couple of miscarriages and PERSONALLY speaking I wouldn't have shared so early to anyone including family simply out of fear that it MAY happen again and having to relive that loss with an audience makes it that much worse
i guess its more devastating for others... someone people can bounce back with no issues or connection... others not so muchI've suffered a couple of miscarriages myself and it's the idea that I should just get over it and not have feelings about it in public that makes me think the way I do about it all. I do agree that everyone should have the right to decide how they want to handle it, but there's also this stigma that needs to go away.
ok gotcha.No, I think you misunderstand. I don't think women should just get over it and hide their feelings about it. I too was devastated and still think about it. I just don't feel like hiding this from people. I understand it's different for different people. I just don't like the societal idea that we SHOULD hide it or just get over it.
I agree with this. I had people who said I should get over it. It's sadly a common thing. Or people would bring it up often and at times when I wasn't wanting to talk or deal with emotions. Because of that and because of losing the baby when I did (2nd trimester) I wasn't into sharing. I didn't want a repeat.No, I think you misunderstand. I don't think women should just get over it and hide their feelings about it. I too was devastated and still think about it. I just don't feel like hiding this from people. I understand it's different for different people. I just don't like the societal idea that we SHOULD hide it or just get over it.