Um not quite.
It really hit home when chim was laid off and because even married Ohio wouldn't recognize us as spouses I could not put him on my insurance so we were flying blind until he found another job.
Lots of stuff are taken for granted when relationships are treated fairly instead of questioned. I am working with someone now that doesn't think homosexuality is a way life and is just a joke/phase/attention grabber and isn't real.
When you aren't treated like you are even human, it is grating.
I'm pretty sure you are always treated as if you're human. You're making a big deal out of relatively little. Marriage? Insurance? None of those equate to inhumanity. Do people perform experiments on gays in laboratories? Are gays used as slave labor? Do we have gay hunting season?