For real, life is weirder than fiction

Sarcasmo said:
I don't know about all this psychobabble and getting in touch with the inner you b.s., but you seriously just need to keep him at arms length. If he wants to shoot you an email and thank you for whatever reason, fine. If he wants to call you later, maybe not so fine. And if he wants to see you, for any reason, definitely not so fine.

The dude is your ex for a reason. You two have long since gone your separate ways, and now you have a life with Ryan. One life at a time, please. Let it go, move on, and tell the guy "No thanks" straight up. You can appreciate something positive from years prior without feeling obligated to revisit it whenever it rears its head again. There is no reason for this guy to still be in contact with you, and you need to be sensitive of Ryan's feelings and respect your current relationship enough to leave it alone. When you walk around you look ahead, not backwards.

Don't be that girl.
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Thank you

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kiwi said:
Yea, KNYTE's ex stalked him till she found out we were getting married. Wait, she still IM's him all the time.
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Do you want to teach him a lesson? A lesson he'll never forget?
 
kiwi said:
Yea, KNYTE's ex stalked him till she found out we were getting married. Wait, she still IM's him all the time.
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One of my exes made friends with my friends after we broke up and sent spies to talk to me in order to find out what was going on in my life and what I was up to. That was a creepy realization, and I found out a lot of people who I thought were my friends really weren't. That really kick started the whole "cleaning house" thing where I just stopped talking to people who couldn't practice the fundamental principal of loyalty and respect in friendship.
 
zengirl said:
One of my exes made friends with my friends after we broke up and sent spies to talk to me in order to find out what was going on in my life and what I was up to. That was a creepy realization, and I found out a lot of people who I thought were my friends really weren't. That really kick started the whole "cleaning house" thing where I just stopped talking to people who couldn't practice the fundamental principal of loyalty and respect in friendship.
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You know, I can understand that in a very, very remote sense. I'd want to know if my ex was getting married, for example, so I could send a card. But that's too weird. And not just from the standpoint of the guy who's interested. What kind of loser numbnuts would say "Yeah sure dude, I'll pretend to be Sarah's friend in order to glean details of her life to pass back to you." Seriously. What? Who's the bigger fucking freak?
 
kiwi said:
Yea, KNYTE's ex stalked him till she found out we were getting married. Wait, she still IM's him all the time.
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sorry. He's cute. And the gloves...:drool:
 
Sarcasmo said:
You know, I can understand that in a very, very remote sense. I'd want to know if my ex was getting married, for example, so I could send a card. But that's too weird. And not just from the standpoint of the guy who's interested. What kind of loser numbnuts would say "Yeah sure dude, I'll pretend to be Sarah's friend in order to glean details of her life to pass back to you." Seriously. What? Who's the bigger fucking freak?
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This wasn't the big stuff, I posted enough on genmay for the big stuff to be public information. He would talk about me to people who were in my house, people I would chat with on a daily basis, just to get info on me. The whole thing creeped me out and it's part of the reason I stopped going there, when I requested that my account be deleted, I was threatened by this indivudual that if anything happened to his account, if he got kc'd or anything, he would start sending not so flattering pictures of me to my employers and to Ryan's family.
 
zengirl said:
This wasn't the big stuff, I posted enough on genmay for the big stuff to be public information. He would talk about me to people who were in my house, people I would chat with on a daily basis, just to get info on me. The whole thing creeped me out and it's part of the reason I stopped going there, when I requested that my account be deleted, I was threatened by this indivudual that if anything happened to his account, if he got kc'd or anything, he would start sending not so flattering pictures of me to my employers and to Ryan's family.
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ummmm...yeah...so...cool....
 
zengirl said:
This wasn't the big stuff, I posted enough on genmay for the big stuff to be public information. He would talk about me to people who were in my house, people I would chat with on a daily basis, just to get info on me. The whole thing creeped me out and it's part of the reason I stopped going there, when I requested that my account be deleted, I was threatened by this indivudual that if anything happened to his account, if he got kc'd or anything, he would start sending not so flattering pictures of me to my employers and to Ryan's family.
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That's not who I think it is......is it? Between H and K on the keyboard?
 
smileynev said:
sorry. He's cute. And the gloves...:drool:
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She's apparently the kind that has to be friends with everybody. I think she actually tried to arrange getting together a few times (she is married now), and wanted to come see my baby and stuff, um, NO!

After a few conversations with her being really stupid (cause she always is), KNYTE finally blocked her (it was about time). I don't have problems with him having past relationships, but I don't want to meet them or know who they are or be friends with them.
 
zengirl said:
This wasn't the big stuff, I posted enough on genmay for the big stuff to be public information. He would talk about me to people who were in my house, people I would chat with on a daily basis, just to get info on me. The whole thing creeped me out and it's part of the reason I stopped going there, when I requested that my account be deleted, I was threatened by this indivudual that if anything happened to his account, if he got kc'd or anything, he would start sending not so flattering pictures of me to my employers and to Ryan's family.
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I'm really sorry you've had to deal with this, but remember, you have Ryan now, and he is apparently much better since you are letting him put a ring on your finger :heart: .
 
kiwi said:
She's apparently the kind that has to be friends with everybody. I think she actually tried to arrange getting together a few times (she is married now), and wanted to come see my baby and stuff, um, NO!

After a few conversations with her being really stupid (cause she always is), KNYTE finally blocked her (it was about time). I don't have problems with him having past relationships, but I don't want to meet them or know who they are or be friends with them.
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Amen, sister. Please stow all baggage in the appropriate trash receptacle in the terminal before boarding Air Damon.
 
Also. Never take nude pics of yourself if you don't want your parents and in laws to see them.
 
zengirl said:
This wasn't the big stuff, I posted enough on genmay for the big stuff to be public information. He would talk about me to people who were in my house, people I would chat with on a daily basis, just to get info on me. The whole thing creeped me out and it's part of the reason I stopped going there, when I requested that my account be deleted, I was threatened by this indivudual that if anything happened to his account, if he got kc'd or anything, he would start sending not so flattering pictures of me to my employers and to Ryan's family.
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Ahh exbf threats, those are hard to handle. Just call his mom and tell her he's really homosexual.

... its worked. :shifty:
 
Sarcasmo said:
That's not who I think it is......is it? Between H and K on the keyboard?
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:lol: The only ex I've ever had who I've actually been intimidated by and afraid of? He's not registered here :eek:
 
smileynev said:
Also. Never take nude pics of yourself if you don't want your parents and in laws to see them.
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QFMFT. Too many chicks make this mistake when dating their bf's of only a few months. Butttt... if it wasn't for this mistake, there wouldn't be much drama on the forums.
 
April23 said:
QFMFT. Too many chicks make this mistake when dating their bf's of only a few months. Butttt... if it wasn't for this mistake, there wouldn't be much drama on the forums.
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I've done a lot of really stupid things I wouldn't want my family to find out about, but notice how he only threatened to send to my employer and my fiance? :lol: My family wouldn't care...

I think it's ridiculous that the kid threatened my professional life if I ruined his intarweb one.
 
smileynev said:
Also. Never take nude pics of yourself if you don't want your parents and in laws to see them.
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That logic is going to deprive amatuer porn loving fanatics, such as myself, of shameless drunken nudity that fuels me throughout the day...and that makes me sad.
 
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