After that last email I got from him yesterday I replied asking if everything was okay, and just before I left last night I got this:
So it seems that millions was right, he's just going through the program, and making a list of all of the things he needs to apologize for.
He stopped at 96 because that's the year all of our shit went down, and the year we got married, and the year he moved me downstate to own a business.
He called last night around 9:30 and we filled each other in on the little things, I told him about Ryan and the engagement, he was kinda dumbfounded... and he remembers Ryan
Wished me the best, I did the same, and that was that.
edit: does anyone else see this whole 12 step program as a little self-centered?