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So long story short.. My sister in law starts dating this guy a little over a year ago who was on house arrest. Well he tells her that it was because he punched his lawyer on a DUI charge. Well just a few months into their relationship he was thrown back in jail for violation of probation. Turns out he wasn't on house arrest but probation for a previous charge. And the violation was because he hit a woman charges were (offensive touching and menacing) he gets sentenced to two years in jail.
I thought two years was kind of harsh and everyone said the (black) judge was just being racist.
He controls my sister in law from jail, is verbally abusive. He yells at her for going out to dinner with her family. She can't even sit at dinner without him calling over and over until she answers. She is told to spend time with his son, she wears wedding rings and uses his last name even though they aren't married. She has no self esteem anymore, he has beaten her down so bad, all from jail. Recently my wife and I have learned he has threatened to kill her or have her killed.
So I had his criminal charges pulled..... It's not good....No he hasn't killed anyone.. But there are bad charges and a lot of them.
Now we don't know what to do. My mother in law is so naive that she refuses to see how this guy is ruining her daughters life. If we took this information to her I could see her blame us for snooping. Or is it putting my wife and I in danger when the information gets back to him.
I don't know what to do...
So long story short.. My sister in law starts dating this guy a little over a year ago who was on house arrest. Well he tells her that it was because he punched his lawyer on a DUI charge. Well just a few months into their relationship he was thrown back in jail for violation of probation. Turns out he wasn't on house arrest but probation for a previous charge. And the violation was because he hit a woman charges were (offensive touching and menacing) he gets sentenced to two years in jail.
I thought two years was kind of harsh and everyone said the (black) judge was just being racist.
He controls my sister in law from jail, is verbally abusive. He yells at her for going out to dinner with her family. She can't even sit at dinner without him calling over and over until she answers. She is told to spend time with his son, she wears wedding rings and uses his last name even though they aren't married. She has no self esteem anymore, he has beaten her down so bad, all from jail. Recently my wife and I have learned he has threatened to kill her or have her killed.
So I had his criminal charges pulled..... It's not good....No he hasn't killed anyone.. But there are bad charges and a lot of them.
Now we don't know what to do. My mother in law is so naive that she refuses to see how this guy is ruining her daughters life. If we took this information to her I could see her blame us for snooping. Or is it putting my wife and I in danger when the information gets back to him.
I don't know what to do...