Make sure you deal with all those feeling now though, I didn't, and ended up have a major meltdown a couple months afterwards... I just sucked it all up at the time, had to take care of the wife and kid, and major projects at work - it fucking burned me out big time.
It's an amazing feeling when you look back on it all though, it just seems like a bad dream, but it has an amazingly strong positive effect on your relationship
Make sure you deal with all those feeling now though, I didn't, and ended up have a major meltdown a couple months afterwards... I just sucked it all up at the time, had to take care of the wife and kid, and major projects at work - it fucking burned me out big time.
It's an amazing feeling when you look back on it all though, it just seems like a bad dream, but it has an amazingly strong positive effect on your relationship
I'm trying to get it all out now. I had promised myself that I wouldn't do it in front of Bicuspid up there, but I have. The socks episode was particularly bad because I let it all out and I know I made him feel bad because I got home and he had cleaned up the house a bit for me, which I told him not to do
And yeah, it's something I've shared with a few people. It's like, when you're young or even when you're engaged you inevitably field the question of "well, how do you know this is right? how do you know this is the person you're supposed to marry?". Well, you just go with it and trust your gut. But then, somewhere in your lifetime, your choice gets validated. I've lost many family members, worst of all my mother last year, and have been a caretaker for family and friends in their times of need. But I have never prayed so hard, fought with all my heart, lost so much sleep, been so much of a cheerleader, or ANYTHING, for anyone else in my life but him. And I'm convinced if he were anyone but him, I wouldn't have gone through what I've gone through in the past three weeks (well, 5 months really since we got this bomb dropped on us) and been perfectly okay doing it.
btw, glad to hear that you and yours are doing okay as well.
We've been doing a LOT of traveling and relaxing as much as we can since she's recovered. just got back from Jamaica, heading to Vegas on the 26th
oh yeah, the dream episode.
I was asleep during my third bout of A-fib so they started treating it without waking me up I woke up in the middle of it with no idea who the doctors and nurses were, but thinking I was a bio soldier and they were taking my organs to build more bio soldiers. Took me few minutes to figure shit out. Doctor got a kick out of that one.
I'm so psyched for you guys that you have so much to celebrate
But you're forever a gnome.Oh, I'm sure I would've survived, no worries there.
I'm trying to get it all out now. I had promised myself that I wouldn't do it in front of Bicuspid up there, but I have. The socks episode was particularly bad because I let it all out and I know I made him feel bad because I got home and he had cleaned up the house a bit for me, which I told him not to do
And yeah, it's something I've shared with a few people. It's like, when you're young or even when you're engaged you inevitably field the question of "well, how do you know this is right? how do you know this is the person you're supposed to marry?". Well, you just go with it and trust your gut. But then, somewhere in your lifetime, your choice gets validated. I've lost many family members, worst of all my mother last year, and have been a caretaker for family and friends in their times of need. But I have never prayed so hard, fought with all my heart, lost so much sleep, been so much of a cheerleader, or ANYTHING, for anyone else in my life but him. And I'm convinced if he were anyone but him, I wouldn't have gone through what I've gone through in the past three weeks (well, 5 months really since we got this bomb dropped on us) and been perfectly okay doing it.