dj, i'm so sorry that you are having to go through this much, this suddenly. this involves shock, panic, hasty decisions, anger, betrayal, disappointment, despair...and i'm sure there are others. the good thing is that most of these are probably, as they should be, short-term feelings. it doesn't seem like there's a valid excuse for what has been done to you here. i'm sorry.
the good thing is that you seem to have a somewhat steady grip on some things. you sound like you are able to hold on and make pretty good, if hasty, decisions. you sound strong, confident, optimistic, even though you may not be each completely. these are the characteristics that can help keep you going, so long as you remember you have them.
things are most usually always changeable, meaning that even if you make a hasty decision now, you might be able to change it at some point. and even if you miss out on something, you can always get it again at next chance.
i really appreciated your sharing of your stress. i think it might be good to get that off your chest, have a chance to look at what's going on in writing, and have some suggestions you might not otherwise get.
it sounds like it's going to be rough, but it sounds like you are up for handling it. just be sure to take care of yourself first. it's entirely possible, whether it's by a pill, AND THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT, or stress release like an activity or two, or a combination.
even if it's here, you have people to turn to if need be for help, or release of stress, or whatever. you have many options, and you'll make it through this.
the good thing is that you seem to have a somewhat steady grip on some things. you sound like you are able to hold on and make pretty good, if hasty, decisions. you sound strong, confident, optimistic, even though you may not be each completely. these are the characteristics that can help keep you going, so long as you remember you have them.
things are most usually always changeable, meaning that even if you make a hasty decision now, you might be able to change it at some point. and even if you miss out on something, you can always get it again at next chance.
i really appreciated your sharing of your stress. i think it might be good to get that off your chest, have a chance to look at what's going on in writing, and have some suggestions you might not otherwise get.
it sounds like it's going to be rough, but it sounds like you are up for handling it. just be sure to take care of yourself first. it's entirely possible, whether it's by a pill, AND THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT, or stress release like an activity or two, or a combination.
even if it's here, you have people to turn to if need be for help, or release of stress, or whatever. you have many options, and you'll make it through this.