Mr. Argumentor
I fab shitboxes and shitbox accessories.
Hell, its only a matter of time before some fuckboy comes in here and decides this is an argument
I volunteerThey should just pick one woman and pay her like 4 thousand billion dollars to serve coffee. Then the averages would even out and life would be fair.
Hell, its only a matter of time before some fuckboy comes in here and decides this is an argument
I volunteer
I don't think you're being held to a higher standard because I get shit all the time for my postsNot that i agree with that, but everyone here goes on for days.
Domon can't help being rude and insensitive.
Helena can't help her wall o text.
August can't help but reply to any post about inequality.
No one can help but respond to JCC's weak trolling.
So why am I expected to be any different? Why hold me to a higher standard?
Yeah, but for the most part you only get shit from the mouth-breathing republicans. It's understandable why they are giving you shit.I don't think you're being held to a higher standard because I get shit all the time for my posts
but I do get it, while I sometimes AM being shitty, more often I am not trying to argue/yell and it comes across as argue-y/judgy/etc even when I try to explain I'm not. it's hard in text to understand/pick up on tone or intentions, whereas in person it's a lot more clear when you're having a discussion vs a heated argument.
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I come off as preachy and judgy, especially when my viewpoint or what I'm saying differs from what someone already believes (because if it's something they already agree with, it's not shocking or doesn't challenge their viewpoint, preaching to the choir kinda thing)Yeah, but for the most part you only get shit from the mouth-breathing republicans. It's understandable why they are giving you shit.
I come off as preachy and judgy, especially when my viewpoint or what I'm saying differs from what someone already believes (because if it's something they already agree with, it's not shocking or doesn't challenge their viewpoint, preaching to the choir kinda thing)
whereas if I was saying it in person, you could totally tell the difference, that I'm just trying to discuss something they may never have heard or present an opinion they didn't know existed and why that thought exists.
I'm also usually posting from my phone, so I get hasty and don't always make clear when I'm posting something I understand but don't necessarily agree with or support.
sometimes people are just shitty for shittiness' sake, but I honestly blame text and my own hastiness or inability to express my thoughts clearly enough for a lot of it (plus then I often respond crappily once the mood gets tense, which doesn't do me any favors). there's lots of factors, I try to be mindful of where the fuckups in communication are on me and try to be better next time. can't always be done, and yeah there is definitely a degree of trollingness in some of it.
a lot of the time, the extra paragraphs are me trying to convey specifically what I am NOT saying, and I still get yelled at and accused of saying the thingyou come off as preachy and judgey because you write 4 paragraphs when two sentences would suffice.
You don't come across as argumentative or judgy, you come across as preachy and soap boxy. It's the same thing everyone has heard before.I don't think you're being held to a higher standard because I get shit all the time for my posts
but I do get it, while I sometimes AM being shitty, more often I am not trying to argue/yell and it comes across as argue-y/judgy/etc even when I try to explain I'm not. it's hard in text to understand/pick up on tone or intentions, whereas in person it's a lot more clear when you're having a discussion vs a heated argument.
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why do you need to do that? Cant you believe something, stand by it for your own reasons, and no go defensive on the automatic?I try to predict where people might read me wrong and address it before anyone gets mad and they still mad tho
I think its the "loudness" of the opinions.
Everyone can have an opinion.
Most peoples opinions are this:
"I believe X for my own reasons"
yours are
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Imagine the carpal tunnel he must have gotten when he typed it out!I almost had a seizure scrolling through that fast.
if I don't, I spend the next 20 responses trying to clarify what I meant and people think I'm backpedaling.why do you need to do that? Cant you believe something, stand by it for your own reasons, and no go defensive on the automatic?
People don't read though - they skim. So it's wasted - walloftext.txt is so 1990s.if I don't, I spend the next 20 responses trying to clarify what I meant and people think I'm backpedaling.
Not that i agree with that, but everyone here goes on for days.
Domon can't help being rude and insensitive.
Helena can't help her wall o text.
August can't help but reply to any post about inequality.
No one can help but respond to JCC's weak trolling.
So why am I expected to be any different? Why hold me to a higher standard?
oi, fuck you buddy.Agreed.
But I think this is about your argumentative ways.
And you're dead on about Domon
I couldn't have said it better