OMG.. I ain't readin 11 pages.
I WILL say.. even when I first got here I almost didn't stay. some folks weren't very nice. how can I put it? um... just like some elitism or something. like they felt compelled to bash, hate, downgrade, whatever, cause I was new. and they were looking down from Mount UF on me. hrmpf.
Then we saw pics of your wife...