Hawt September 29 - UFs Holy Day

It's a subconscious thing though.

How did he ruin your birthday?

He had a bad day at work on Friday night (night before my bday)
We met at home around 10pm and he rambled for one hour about this shitty situation at work. He was shooting out emails after emails to some staffs and he was livid.
We have a rule, he’s not allowed to bring that work drama home, cuz it ends bad.

Anyhoo I was preparing for a meeting for my company and he was gonna sit in on it.
So all week I was thinking of different ways to ask him to please not over power my meeting with his controlling ways. I went over the situation in my head 100000x
So finally when he stopped fighting with people at work o stupidly chose the wrong time EVER to bring it up

“Hey ... you think maybe tomorrow you can let me run the meeting and maybe just jump in when I’m struggling”

“Ok... why?”

“Well sometimes you have a tendency to you know... kinda take over and dominate stuff and I’d like it very much if maybe we.....”

“WHO THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU ARE TELLING ME HOW TO CONDUCT MYSELF IN A FUCKING MEETING.. WHERE THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU FUCKING MEASURE UP NEXT TO ME? FUCK YOU DAGGERS DAGGERS DAGGERS BLAH BLAH BLAH...”

“Okkkkk here you go, over reacting and always using me as your punching bag when you have a bad day at work...never fails”

“DAGGERS DAGGERS DAGGERS”

So he stormed off and left. I went to bed.
Next morning (my bday, he didn’t say a world to me. We went to the meeting and I just let him talk and do his thing..
We came back home and he said “here’s your bday present” and left a bag on the kitchen counter and I said, not thanks and went to our room. That was at 3pm
At 5 pm he texts me (from the living room) saying: dinner party is canceled, find someone else to go out with.

I said ok.

Stayed in my room all night and turned Netflix on.
We haven’t spoken since

But this is all my fault.
 
He had a bad day at work on Friday night (night before my bday)
We met at home around 10pm and he rambled for one hour about this shitty situation at work. He was shooting out emails after emails to some staffs and he was livid.
We have a rule, he’s not allowed to bring that work drama home, cuz it ends bad.

Anyhoo I was preparing for a meeting for my company and he was gonna sit in on it.
So all week I was thinking of different ways to ask him to please not over power my meeting with his controlling ways. I went over the situation in my head 100000x
So finally when he stopped fighting with people at work o stupidly chose the wrong time EVER to bring it up

“Hey ... you think maybe tomorrow you can let me run the meeting and maybe just jump in when I’m struggling”

“Ok... why?”

“Well sometimes you have a tendency to you know... kinda take over and dominate stuff and I’d like it very much if maybe we.....”

“WHO THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU ARE TELLING ME HOW TO CONDUCT MYSELF IN A FUCKING MEETING.. WHERE THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU FUCKING MEASURE UP NEXT TO ME? FUCK YOU DAGGERS DAGGERS DAGGERS BLAH BLAH BLAH...”

“Okkkkk here you go, over reacting and always using me as your punching bag when you have a bad day at work...never fails”

“DAGGERS DAGGERS DAGGERS”

So he stormed off and left. I went to bed.
Next morning (my bday, he didn’t say a world to me. We went to the meeting and I just let him talk and do his thing..
We came back home and he said “here’s your bday present” and left a bag on the kitchen counter and I said, not thanks and went to our room. That was at 3pm
At 5 pm he texts me (from the living room) saying: dinner party is canceled, find someone else to go out with.

I said ok.

Stayed in my room all night and turned Netflix on.
We haven’t spoken since

But this is all my fault.
Kiki that’s fucked up :(
 
He had a bad day at work on Friday night (night before my bday)
We met at home around 10pm and he rambled for one hour about this shitty situation at work. He was shooting out emails after emails to some staffs and he was livid.
We have a rule, he’s not allowed to bring that work drama home, cuz it ends bad.

Anyhoo I was preparing for a meeting for my company and he was gonna sit in on it.
So all week I was thinking of different ways to ask him to please not over power my meeting with his controlling ways. I went over the situation in my head 100000x
So finally when he stopped fighting with people at work o stupidly chose the wrong time EVER to bring it up

“Hey ... you think maybe tomorrow you can let me run the meeting and maybe just jump in when I’m struggling”

“Ok... why?”

“Well sometimes you have a tendency to you know... kinda take over and dominate stuff and I’d like it very much if maybe we.....”

“WHO THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU ARE TELLING ME HOW TO CONDUCT MYSELF IN A FUCKING MEETING.. WHERE THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU FUCKING MEASURE UP NEXT TO ME? FUCK YOU DAGGERS DAGGERS DAGGERS BLAH BLAH BLAH...”

“Okkkkk here you go, over reacting and always using me as your punching bag when you have a bad day at work...never fails”

“DAGGERS DAGGERS DAGGERS”

So he stormed off and left. I went to bed.
Next morning (my bday, he didn’t say a world to me. We went to the meeting and I just let him talk and do his thing..
We came back home and he said “here’s your bday present” and left a bag on the kitchen counter and I said, not thanks and went to our room. That was at 3pm
At 5 pm he texts me (from the living room) saying: dinner party is canceled, find someone else to go out with.

I said ok.

Stayed in my room all night and turned Netflix on.
We haven’t spoken since

But this is all my fault.
 
He had a bad day at work on Friday night (night before my bday)
We met at home around 10pm and he rambled for one hour about this shitty situation at work. He was shooting out emails after emails to some staffs and he was livid.
We have a rule, he’s not allowed to bring that work drama home, cuz it ends bad.

Anyhoo I was preparing for a meeting for my company and he was gonna sit in on it.
So all week I was thinking of different ways to ask him to please not over power my meeting with his controlling ways. I went over the situation in my head 100000x
So finally when he stopped fighting with people at work o stupidly chose the wrong time EVER to bring it up

“Hey ... you think maybe tomorrow you can let me run the meeting and maybe just jump in when I’m struggling”

“Ok... why?”

“Well sometimes you have a tendency to you know... kinda take over and dominate stuff and I’d like it very much if maybe we.....”

“WHO THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU ARE TELLING ME HOW TO CONDUCT MYSELF IN A FUCKING MEETING.. WHERE THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU FUCKING MEASURE UP NEXT TO ME? FUCK YOU DAGGERS DAGGERS DAGGERS BLAH BLAH BLAH...”

“Okkkkk here you go, over reacting and always using me as your punching bag when you have a bad day at work...never fails”

“DAGGERS DAGGERS DAGGERS”

So he stormed off and left. I went to bed.
Next morning (my bday, he didn’t say a world to me. We went to the meeting and I just let him talk and do his thing..
We came back home and he said “here’s your bday present” and left a bag on the kitchen counter and I said, not thanks and went to our room. That was at 3pm
At 5 pm he texts me (from the living room) saying: dinner party is canceled, find someone else to go out with.

I said ok.

Stayed in my room all night and turned Netflix on.
We haven’t spoken since

But this is all my fault.
:( All of this could have been easily fixed with a hug and "let's start over", but noooo he made it about him. I'm with Strawberry, that's fucked up. :(


*hug*