Halp Mental Disorders and Infidelity.

Part of the problem is that women on the Autism spectrum commonly get misdiagnosed because their symptoms manifest themselves in such different ways. Ways that are so similar to other mental issues that are more prone to females than males, to the point that pretty much everyone I've ever talked to about it clams up when talking about diagnosing females other than to say how difficult it can be to get an accurate diagnosis.
That's because bitches be crazy.

OK. Back to the topic at hand. Regardless of an official diagnosis, the signs remain the same. Ignore the ASD label if necessary, and provide an opinion or advice based on the other information itt.
 
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That's because bitches be crazy.

OK. Back to the topic at hand. Regardless of an official diagnosis, the signs remain the same. Ignore the ASD label if necessary, and provide an opinion or advice based on the other information itt.
Fair enough, I just don't like seeing people on the spectrum being talked about as their condition.

Ignoring the label, its not your playground. Unless the husband says something to prove that he suspects (not something that you might be able to construe as suspecting, but something concrete) its not really your place to say or do anything but support him after that particular bomb gets dropped.
 
That's because bitches be crazy.

OK. Back to the topic at hand. Regardless of an official diagnosis, the signs remain the same. Ignore the ASD label if necessary, and provide an opinion or advice based on the other information itt.
I wouldn't tell him. But I would tell her (or better yet, have your fiancee tell) to get tested for std's. She may be hitting on you by telling you this, btw. Might even be a total lie.
 
Ledboots thought what I thought. She might be hitting on you. Also, who is to say that this will end the relationship? Couples work through infidelity all the time especially if the reason for the infidelity is not lack of love. I don't think I'd tell the husband, but I might suggest to the wife that they get some couples therapy to work through their obvious relationship issues and that she get some individual therapy to work through her issues with instability.
 
It's funny you say this... the fiance thought that too. I could go into why that's extremely weird, but I won't.

What do you think about me telling her mom to suggest a therapist?
I would just suggest marriage counseling to the cheater and leave the mom out of it.
 
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Whenever I want an autism or Asperger's diagnosis, I go immediately to a boat engineer.
You know what my wife does, right? I helped her study through her Master's program. Other than Dory I've probably learned more about it than anyone else here.

But what am I talking about, its not like I talk to a cab driver when I want a rational conversation.
 
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p sure his SO works in a field like special education, which like I don't think I can play bass just bc Jason does but also I know more about some stuff relating to being a musician than the average nonmusician bear.
Just try and use protection whenever Jason returns from touring.
#bassistsarewhores
 
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