I have been putting it off for awhile but sometimes you have to do what you have to do. I was planning on actually trying to talk to this person to see if the damage could be repaired, but I waited too long thinking their ways would change and finally this morning everything came to a head. I can't give away too much info because some of you may know this person - this is more of a vent thread then anything else. After months of being lied to about everything from what they had for breakfast to their SO having "complications" and being in the hospital - I cut it off. The sad part is that we grew up together, and we have been there for this person through thick and thin. I would like to blame it on childhood, drugs, anything - but there is no excuse for this last bout of lies. This morning this person put me in the most difficult position yet - and didn't have the balls to even respond except for a fucking text message.
I like to think that I am a good friend. I don't tell secrets, and I will bend over every way to Sunday to help my friends out. I would give you the shirt off my back [insert boob jokes here ] I am sick to my stomach literally as I write this, but I have had absolutly enough and I can no longer put myself and my family in positions to fail because of one person.
So... So long!
Is this what happens when you turn 30? You finally grow up enough to realize who is important in your life and who is cancer? I ask myself, who do I REALLY need? I have a wonderful husband, family and a handful of people I can trust with my life. All could concievably wear the title "best friend."
Has anyone else been put in this position when enough is just ENOUGH? TGIF! I plan on getting stupid drunk tongiht as my entire day has gone to shit in about 20 minutes flat.
On the bright side, it is the New Year and I think there is no better way to start it then to start fresh.
I like to think that I am a good friend. I don't tell secrets, and I will bend over every way to Sunday to help my friends out. I would give you the shirt off my back [insert boob jokes here ] I am sick to my stomach literally as I write this, but I have had absolutly enough and I can no longer put myself and my family in positions to fail because of one person.
So... So long!
Is this what happens when you turn 30? You finally grow up enough to realize who is important in your life and who is cancer? I ask myself, who do I REALLY need? I have a wonderful husband, family and a handful of people I can trust with my life. All could concievably wear the title "best friend."
Has anyone else been put in this position when enough is just ENOUGH? TGIF! I plan on getting stupid drunk tongiht as my entire day has gone to shit in about 20 minutes flat.
On the bright side, it is the New Year and I think there is no better way to start it then to start fresh.