elpmis said:the easy answer isn't always the right one
Pouring cheap vodka into it is apparantly a no-no as wellDrool-Boy said:If you go into a catholic church, whatever you do, dont wash your hands in that big bowl of water they have sitting out. They get all kinda pissed off at you.
Wtf.
You think that's bad. Try pissing in it...Drool-Boy said:If you go into a catholic church, whatever you do, dont wash your hands in that big bowl of water they have sitting out. They get all kinda pissed off at you.
Wtf.
fly said:You think that's bad. Try pissing in it...
right, but that's why it sucks so bad when a death suddenly occurs due to accident, and everyone feels like they didn't have the chance to live a full life, like when a child diesPandora said:Yeah the older I get the more I realize that A LOT of people don't REALLY FULLYaccept that death is just a natural part of life, and that it will happen to everyone eventually. I see death as a time of peace for the deceased, wither or not they are consciously aware of that peace who knows. Many people's ideal of Heaven is like a 'castle in the clouds' mentality to me. IMHO if you live life to it's fullest, then why does it matter so much if/when someone passes on to an afterlife?
*orders a big billowy robe*Drool-Boy said:Taking your dick out in church is a sin , duh.
Thats why the priests put the altar boys under their big billowy robes.
pets.com puppet ftwelpmis said:fly, if I were you I'd rock the terrance puppet and walk around narrating the event
Pandora said:Yeah the older I get the more I realize that A LOT of people don't REALLY FULLYaccept that death is just a natural part of life, and that it will happen to everyone eventually. I see death as a time of peace for the deceased, wither or not they are consciously aware of that peace who knows. Many people's ideal of Heaven is like a 'castle in the clouds' mentality to me. IMHO if you live life to it's fullest, then why does it matter so much if/when someone passes on to an afterlife?
elpmis said:right, but that's why it sucks so bad when a death suddenly occurs due to accident, and everyone feels like they didn't have the chance to live a full life, like when a child dies
Thorn Bird said:sure it's a natural part of life, but so is a human's want and need to grieve. i know that when someone goes, they are, what i'd like to think, going to a better place. i grieve for selfish reasons. for love, for loss, for what i'm not going to get to do with them anymore.
my friend was 27 when he died. he left behind a two-year-old son and a widow. i cried for the fact that heath would never see jacob grow. that jacob would never know his daddy. that mel was left by herself. that heath never bought the next thing on his list. he lived a great life, but he was young. it's great for him to be up there, and i'm happy for him, even jealous at times, but my tears are for the ones left without him, and that includes me.
i think it's completely healthy for someone to grieve. matter of fact, i find it very unhealthy if someone has absolutely no grief over someone they love dying.
Pandora said:See but I don't think it's benifical or healthy to focus on what is lost when someone dies. When I've experienced death with my family and friends I tried to focus on the time that person had in life and celebrate that. There is nothing that can be done about what is lost, so I just don't see a point in dwelling on that. People die and deal with unfortunate circumstances every day, that is just a part of life. I'd rather focus my energy on thinking about what we have in life, not what we don't.
fly said:so really...
Am I supposed to wear black?
Do I need to bring anything?
Are there any customs that I need to be aware of?
still, if a friend of mine died in a car crash at 30 I would be greatly upset. Even if he/she lived their life to the fulliest, they could have lived their life to the fulliest for even longer. Who knows what they could have done in the next 30 some years, that's like living their life TWICE.Pandora said:You don't have to die at an old age to live a full life. I've lost family members to accidents before, and prior to their death they had over 30 years to live life to it's fullest. Granted when a child dies it's hard to say they had a full life, but hopefully the time they did have in life was lived to it's fullest potential and that's what I believe people should try to focus on.