I bet her parents blame you since you're not rich like they is.
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Melatonin and Valerian Root are great over the counter supplements that are all natural that will help you sleep good.
The cat is pretty much fucked up for life now. The drugs wore off and he seems ok but he keeps running into the house and see us and freak and haul ass back out of the house. So I open the door and hide out of sight until he runs in to eat and then hide.
On a very very bad note the wife pretty much had a mental breakdown last night. I spent the night and the morning trying to pull her together to keep on going. She's just losing all hope and I can't force her to live her life. I had to restrain her from harming herself. I didn't even trust her to drive my son alone to school this morning. I called her parents this morning to explain I need their help in getting her help. I can't have her going to pieces around my son. They were pretty much indifferent. I tried to explain that their daughter was being crushed by depression and a few kind words of encouragement from them could really help her but they said they had plans to go out of town with some friends for the weekend so they didn't want to get involved. I asked them what are they doing to help their other daughter that just had a miscarriage and was bouncing from guys bed to beds and relapsing hard into drugs and no one besides me has even tried to locate in days. Once again they said she made her own decisions too.
They raised their daughters in a rich fairy tale world of nannies and maids and then threw them out in the harsh world with out ever preparing them for life and all 3 daughters have deep seated daddy and emotional issues and fear of abandonment. Her parents just don't see how any of this is their problem so I told them if I had another night like last night I was going to tie her to their front door steps and give them a call to come get her. If I see the other daughter I was going to do the same thing on sight.
My parents may have been from a blue collar background but they were always honest about life is hard and it's up to you to make the best of it that you could. I thank my parents for being the parents that they were.
The hardest part is seeing how she more often than not is the source of her own problems and knowing she has to realize that for herself. As much as it's hard to accept, we are more in control of our personal destiny than we like to admit sometimes.
Melatonin and Valerian Root are great over the counter supplements that are all natural that will help you sleep good.
The cat is pretty much fucked up for life now. The drugs wore off and he seems ok but he keeps running into the house and see us and freak and haul ass back out of the house. So I open the door and hide out of sight until he runs in to eat and then hide.
On a very very bad note the wife pretty much had a mental breakdown last night. I spent the night and the morning trying to pull her together to keep on going. She's just losing all hope and I can't force her to live her life. I had to restrain her from harming herself. I didn't even trust her to drive my son alone to school this morning. I called her parents this morning to explain I need their help in getting her help. I can't have her going to pieces around my son. They were pretty much indifferent. I tried to explain that their daughter was being crushed by depression and a few kind words of encouragement from them could really help her but they said they had plans to go out of town with some friends for the weekend so they didn't want to get involved. I asked them what are they doing to help their other daughter that just had a miscarriage and was bouncing from guys bed to beds and relapsing hard into drugs and no one besides me has even tried to locate in days. Once again they said she made her own decisions too.
They raised their daughters in a rich fairy tale world of nannies and maids and then threw them out in the harsh world with out ever preparing them for life and all 3 daughters have deep seated daddy and emotional issues and fear of abandonment. Her parents just don't see how any of this is their problem so I told them if I had another night like last night I was going to tie her to their front door steps and give them a call to come get her. If I see the other daughter I was going to do the same thing on sight.
My parents may have been from a blue collar background but they were always honest about life is hard and it's up to you to make the best of it that you could. I thank my parents for being the parents that they were.
Pretty much. Thanks for the support guys. My wife just called me to bitch about work so that is a good sign. Anger can be a motivator too.
When I got home the rooster was standing on the front porch with all my cats. He took off running before I could catch him. So now the rooster has to out right mock me and the cats aren't even trying to help. I should leave some feed out for him soaked in melatonin and see him do a boneless chicken imitation.
At this point I refuse to give up. At the end of time it will be me and the cockroaches and I plan on relocating them.
Melatonin and Valerian Root are great over the counter supplements that are all natural that will help you sleep good.
The cat is pretty much fucked up for life now. The drugs wore off and he seems ok but he keeps running into the house and see us and freak and haul ass back out of the house. So I open the door and hide out of sight until he runs in to eat and then hide.
On a very very bad note the wife pretty much had a mental breakdown last night. I spent the night and the morning trying to pull her together to keep on going. She's just losing all hope and I can't force her to live her life. I had to restrain her from harming herself. I didn't even trust her to drive my son alone to school this morning. I called her parents this morning to explain I need their help in getting her help. I can't have her going to pieces around my son. They were pretty much indifferent. I tried to explain that their daughter was being crushed by depression and a few kind words of encouragement from them could really help her but they said they had plans to go out of town with some friends for the weekend so they didn't want to get involved. I asked them what are they doing to help their other daughter that just had a miscarriage and was bouncing from guys bed to beds and relapsing hard into drugs and no one besides me has even tried to locate in days. Once again they said she made her own decisions too.
They raised their daughters in a rich fairy tale world of nannies and maids and then threw them out in the harsh world with out ever preparing them for life and all 3 daughters have deep seated daddy and emotional issues and fear of abandonment. Her parents just don't see how any of this is their problem so I told them if I had another night like last night I was going to tie her to their front door steps and give them a call to come get her. If I see the other daughter I was going to do the same thing on sight.
My parents may have been from a blue collar background but they were always honest about life is hard and it's up to you to make the best of it that you could. I thank my parents for being the parents that they were.
Pretty much. Thanks for the support guys. My wife just called me to bitch about work so that is a good sign. Anger can be a motivator too.
When I got home the rooster was standing on the front porch with all my cats. He took off running before I could catch him. So now the rooster has to out right mock me and the cats aren't even trying to help. I should leave some feed out for him soaked in melatonin and see him do a boneless chicken imitation.
At this point I refuse to give up. At the end of time it will be me and the cockroaches and I plan on relocating them.
Melatonin and Valerian Root are great over the counter supplements that are all natural that will help you sleep good.
The cat is pretty much fucked up for life now. The drugs wore off and he seems ok but he keeps running into the house and see us and freak and haul ass back out of the house. So I open the door and hide out of sight until he runs in to eat and then hide.
On a very very bad note the wife pretty much had a mental breakdown last night. I spent the night and the morning trying to pull her together to keep on going. She's just losing all hope and I can't force her to live her life. I had to restrain her from harming herself. I didn't even trust her to drive my son alone to school this morning. I called her parents this morning to explain I need their help in getting her help. I can't have her going to pieces around my son. They were pretty much indifferent. I tried to explain that their daughter was being crushed by depression and a few kind words of encouragement from them could really help her but they said they had plans to go out of town with some friends for the weekend so they didn't want to get involved. I asked them what are they doing to help their other daughter that just had a miscarriage and was bouncing from guys bed to beds and relapsing hard into drugs and no one besides me has even tried to locate in days. Once again they said she made her own decisions too.
They raised their daughters in a rich fairy tale world of nannies and maids and then threw them out in the harsh world with out ever preparing them for life and all 3 daughters have deep seated daddy and emotional issues and fear of abandonment. Her parents just don't see how any of this is their problem so I told them if I had another night like last night I was going to tie her to their front door steps and give them a call to come get her. If I see the other daughter I was going to do the same thing on sight.
My parents may have been from a blue collar background but they were always honest about life is hard and it's up to you to make the best of it that you could. I thank my parents for being the parents that they were.
If I can play devils advocate here (and as an unrelated 3rd party), you're not helping her by "pulling her together". You're enabling her to continue down the same path.