sorry, is it your contention that having a conversation in and of itself amounts to sexual/romantic invitation?Actually no she hasn't made it clear AND followed through on that clarity at all. She'll tell the girl she's not her thing then when the girl messages her again she'll not only respond but get in a whole conversation deal again. That's not making anything clear, it's not cutting anything off or even setting limits, it is engaging and leading on.
Face it, she likes emotionally toying with the chick and she won't cut her off because then she'd lose her play toy and along with it the feeling that she's still "all that" because somebody out there might do stupid weird shit in an attempt to be with her.
I think he's saying Kiki knows what Wil wants despite "hints" and should just ditch her if she isn't into it.sorry, is it your contention that having a conversation in and of itself amounts to sexual/romantic invitation?
do you think I'm extending an invitation to you right now by nature of responding to your post?
No I dont. That's also a false perception of what's going on here, at least as it's presented to us as a one-sided impression none of us here at uselessfprums have actually witnessed in person.sorry, is it your contention that having a conversation in and of itself amounts to sexual/romantic invitation?
do you think I'm extending an invitation to you right now by nature of responding to your post?
Thank you for stating clearly what I'm trying to say clearly and failing to say clearly.I think he's saying Kiki knows what Wil wants despite "hints" and should just ditch her if she isn't into it.
Because continuing is sorta weird when it's obvious Wil isn't going to take the hint.
Because continuing to engage is sending the wrong signal to Wil.
I think he's saying Kiki knows what Wil wants despite "hints" and should just ditch her if she isn't into it.
Because continuing is sorta weird when it's obvious Wil isn't going to take the hint.
Because continuing to engage is sending the wrong signal to Wil.
Pretty sure Kiki knew she just wanted romance/sex and wasn't into the just friends thing before now (like how could you not) and kept running with it anyway.it's only obvious NOW that she's going to ignore the "hints" (which have included Kiki explicitly stating that she is not interested in her romantically/sexually) because we have now seen her do so several times, but that's with the benefit of hindsight that Kiki did not have when she originally continued talking to her.
I mean... C'mon. I think you're giving Kiki wayyyyyy too little credit.it's only obvious NOW that she's going to ignore the "hints" (which have included Kiki explicitly stating that she is not interested in her romantically/sexually) because we have now seen her do so several times, but that's with the benefit of hindsight that Kiki did not have when she originally continued talking to her.
Tinder? Really?
So we basically got two people with zero self-respect trying to better each other?
That explains a hell of a lot.
Actually no she hasn't made it clear AND followed through on that clarity at all. She'll tell the girl she's not her thing then when the girl messages her again she'll not only respond but get in a whole conversation deal again. That's not making anything clear, it's not cutting anything off or even setting limits, it is engaging and leading on.
Face it, she likes emotionally toying with the chick and she won't cut her off because then she'd lose her play toy and along with it the feeling that she's still "all that" because somebody out there might do stupid weird shit in an attempt to be with her.
I prefer not to be crippled with 18 years of child support with someone who isn't even fun.Go meet a nice girl the old fashion way, get em loaded at a bar, knock em up, and figure out the rest later.
I think he's saying Kiki knows what Wil wants despite "hints" and should just ditch her if she isn't into it.
Because continuing is sorta weird when it's obvious Wil isn't going to take the hint.
Because continuing to engage is sending the wrong signal to Wil.
I mean... C'mon. I think you're giving Kiki wayyyyyy too little credit.
You're basically trying to make me believe the "I'm on tinder to make friends" blow off at face value. The difference is Wil is socially inept, or high, or something.
Go meet a nice girl the old fashion way, get em loaded at a bar, knock em up, and figure out the rest later.
Hey I was just clarifying what he was saying. Your posts do kinda give that impression because it's hard to capture an entire conversation from snippets.there are no “hints” there full and clear statements from me saying “not interested bro, i just wanna be friends” and her clearly responding “ok i understand i respect that you just wanna be friends”
then she flips again. no thanks
Well like I said, she's socially inept, or high, or something. SHE doesn't want to be friends and is trying to as you put it "snake."no one is on tinder trynna make friends. but after we communicated i IMMEDIATELY decided she was someone i didn’t want a relationship with and made that very clear many many times
she said she just wanted to be friends are well. that was agreed and discussed many times
but as soon and i’m cool with her a few days later she gets stupid. she doesn’t even say: i wanna be in a relationship with you kiki
she just gets weird and territorial and demanding . friends don’t act that way