We sent the official Thanksgiving e-vite out yesterday. We'll see if the father-in-law and the fake wife shrew can bothered to respond at all.
They never could be bothered to respond to the save the date, and anytime turkuh day is brought up, the woman changes the subject.
For example. Us- "Yeah, we're going to start keeping our eye out for a good thanksgiving turkey" Woman clears her throat, subject get's changed.
They're either not showing up. Or, they won't tell us, so the woman can act like it was such a hard thing to do to get here (it's not) and she's so fucking awesome for it. And make it all about herself, as usual.
Meh.
edit: I'll add this. the womans brothers house had a big fire, so she may get all "we need to make time to see my brother" which she only wants to do when the FIL wants to come down here.