Hawt September 29 - UFs Holy Day

Nooo, you guys were doing so well for so long.
ugh i know....i guess it was due time for a major blow up.
i was thinking the other day, he really targets my "special days" for some reason. I dont know if he means to but the list is impressive:

-my birthday 2018, 2015
-thanksgiving with my family 2017
-Valentines Day 2017, 2018
-new years 2016 in Los Angeles
-the day my dad died :(
-my BIGGEST company event in August
-Halloween in Las Vegas 2015 where he took off on me at the Cleveland Airport and @yeppers almost had to come save me.
-the day i bought my new car (remember that meltdown???)
-the day my son and i moved in with him
-our anniversary 2018, 2016
-Mothers Day 2018
-a major job interview 2017... which bombed bad as he screamed at me as i was LITERALLY walking into a room to meet the panel... but that only lead to me launching my own business so it was a blessing in disguise
-my biggest business collaboration to date meeting (on my bday on saturday)

to name a few...
 
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ugh i know....i guess it was due time for a major blow up.
i was thinking the other day, he really targets my "special days" for some reason. I dont know if he means to but the list is impressive:

-my birthday 2018, 2015
-thanksgiving with my family 2017
-Valentines Day 2017, 2018
-new years 2016 in Los Angeles
-the day my dad died :(
-my BIGGEST company event in August
-Halloween in Las Vegas 2015 where he took off on me at the Cleveland Airport and @yeppers almost had to come save me.
-the day i bought my new car (remember that meltdown???)
-the day my son and i moved in with him
-our anniversary 2018, 2016
-Mothers Day 2018
-a major job interview 2017... which bombed bad as he screamed at me as i was LITERALLY walking into a room to meet the panel... but that only lead to me launching my own business so it was a blessing in disguise
-my biggest business collaboration to date meeting (on my bday on saturday)

to name a few...
Wow, the Cleveland meltdown was three years ago already? I can't believe you've been with that manchild this long.
 
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ugh i know....i guess it was due time for a major blow up.
i was thinking the other day, he really targets my "special days" for some reason. I dont know if he means to but the list is impressive:

-my birthday 2018, 2015
-thanksgiving with my family 2017
-Valentines Day 2017, 2018
-new years 2016 in Los Angeles
-the day my dad died :(
-my BIGGEST company event in August
-Halloween in Las Vegas 2015 where he took off on me at the Cleveland Airport and @yeppers almost had to come save me.
-the day i bought my new car (remember that meltdown???)
-the day my son and i moved in with him
-our anniversary 2018, 2016
-Mothers Day 2018
-a major job interview 2017... which bombed bad as he screamed at me as i was LITERALLY walking into a room to meet the panel... but that only lead to me launching my own business so it was a blessing in disguise
-my biggest business collaboration to date meeting (on my bday on saturday)

to name a few...
So basically anytime you are getting attention and he is not.

There is a psychological diagnosis for this condition. :lol:
 
ugh i know....i guess it was due time for a major blow up.
i was thinking the other day, he really targets my "special days" for some reason. I dont know if he means to but the list is impressive:

-my birthday 2018, 2015
-thanksgiving with my family 2017
-Valentines Day 2017, 2018
-new years 2016 in Los Angeles
-the day my dad died :(
-my BIGGEST company event in August
-Halloween in Las Vegas 2015 where he took off on me at the Cleveland Airport and @yeppers almost had to come save me.
-the day i bought my new car (remember that meltdown???)
-the day my son and i moved in with him
-our anniversary 2018, 2016
-Mothers Day 2018
-a major job interview 2017... which bombed bad as he screamed at me as i was LITERALLY walking into a room to meet the panel... but that only lead to me launching my own business so it was a blessing in disguise
-my biggest business collaboration to date meeting (on my bday on saturday)

to name a few...

after about the 2nd one of those I would have cut n run
jeebus
 
i honestly try and decipher this behaviour. i just dont get it.
the jealousy is 1000000% better, almost non existent.... but the narcissism and control is at an all time high

the jealousy is better because in his mind he's decreasing your value.

*"decreasing" is an active state of mind.
:(
 
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i honestly try and decipher this behaviour. i just dont get it.
the jealousy is 1000000% better, almost non existent.... but the narcissism and control is at an all time high
Perhaps he's scared of you being better than him, being more successful than him, hotter than him, etc. He wants to hold you back for his own insecurity reasons... which isn't cool, dude.
 
Perhaps he's scared of you being better than him, being more successful than him, hotter than him, etc. He wants to hold you back for his own insecurity reasons... which isn't cool, dude.
Thanks for saving me the typing Apes! :) Yeah, I'm totally puzzled by guys who are worried about women in their lives doing good-> better. There is no downside unless you are jealous and yeah, bit narcissistic. Sugar Mommas to the rescue!
 
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