Thread Any Jews on this forum? I have a question for you

I slept with a married woman for awhile. I don't think she had a handbook on how to do it.
 
I slept with a married woman for awhile. I don't think she had a handbook on how to do it.
unless her husband knew and was fine with it, even loved that she liked sleeping with you, then it was just cheating. an open marriage is not cheating.
 
unless her husband knew and was fine with it, even loved that she liked sleeping with you, then it was just cheating. an open marriage is not cheating.

It just seems to me that your compass is set to any course that allows you to do whatever you want, so long as you don't feel shitty for doing it. What is your marriage for? If I'm being too personal, please say so.
 
It just seems to me that your compass is set to any course that allows you to do whatever you want, so long as you don't feel shitty for doing it. What is your marriage for? If I'm being too personal, please say so.
I do not do whatever I want. I havent even attempted or sought out any other people to be romantic with and if I did, at this point in my life, it probably wouldn't even be a man unless it was another couple that we saw together.
 
I do not do whatever I want. I havent even attempted or sought out any other people to be romantic with and if I did, at this point in my life, it probably wouldn't even be a man unless it was another couple that we saw together.
Kiki is available.
 
This may have been covered.

At about what point did you and beardo decide to be polyamorous?
 
Right about the same time he convinced himself that he would rather get walked all over than have easy access.
Based only on the dirty laundry I've seen here, I don't think he's the victim. Whole thing stinks of narcissism.
 
This may have been covered.

At about what point did you and beardo decide to be polyamorous?
about a year and a half ago....though I wouldnt label my husband as polyamorous...I dont think he has any interest in being romantic with other people or having any sort of feelings or emotions involved other than just basic human respect and general friendship.
 
I really would have rather my husband and I's physical altercations and other personal info shared by people from other forums have ever been brought here and pushed back into my face. It feels like I could stop breathing when I think about it. it is a very big trigger.
 
Based only on the dirty laundry I've seen here, I don't think he's the victim. Whole thing stinks of narcissism.

about a year and a half ago....though I wouldnt label my husband as polyamorous...I dont think he has any interest in being romantic with other people or having any sort of feelings or emotions involved other than just basic human respect and general friendship.

I'd like to redact my previous comment.
 
I really would have rather my husband and I's physical altercations and other personal info shared by people from other forums have ever been brought here and pushed back into my face. It feels like I could stop breathing when I think about it. it is a very big trigger.
Have you considered that you might be in an unhealthy relationship?
 
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he has no problem banging other people, I just dont think he is interested in being "in a relationship" with them
 
Does he describe your relationship as polyamorous, or is that a term you've labeled it?