I fail to see what this has to do with your statement about how her refusing would be perfectly safe.YES WE DO HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT THAT. Maybe not for ourselves, but for our wives, daughters, sisters, mothers, friends, and every other fucking person on the planet. Anyone else on that subway can and should get involved.
This is OUR world, we all live in it, and should be making it a fucking better place where people DO NOT have to put up with this shit.
You are changing the topic.