Thread Maureen you should feel honored to be toms first

This contradicts what you've said on numerous occasions in the past.

Now if you were to say my personality is ugly, I'd agree with you. But you've complimented my appearance on more than one occasion.
I try to be pleasant to almost anyone. But no, I do not find you to be attractive. And I do not believe I have said it on numerous occasions. I have seen one picture of you that I thought was decent.