I don't understand why when someone acts like an ass and I address it, I'm the bitch.
This guy called me at 11am when he was supposed to meet me for lunch to say he was going to be a half hour late because he got distracted. Asked if 11:30 was ok. I said ok. Then he pushed "really ok? or are you mad?" Good to note that this kid is late every time we hang out.
Well no, I'm not mad but I don't like people being late.
Quiet on the line.
Then he said he felt chastised.
I'm becoming a monk and moving to a secluded cave.
I don't get how to talk to people. Are you supposed to let them continue to disregard your time?
I hate being late and I loathe people being late too. If you say you are going to do something, do it. It's not hard!