She's not going to grow up, she'll just find another crutch to do what you won't anymore. People don't change, unfortunately... maybe temporarily.
I hope the best for you.. you deserve it.
Some do. Some don't.
It's time to throw in the towel. I want better for my son and I think without me to do everything for her she'll finally grow up and start doing what she needs to do. Without her around constantly tripping me up every time I make any progress I can move on too.
I too hope for the best for you B. It's a hard step, just make sure you're confident in taking that step before you do.