No - he's the victim. She's a serial man-wrecker. She knew he was broken and she still toys with him. I don't think she is an "idiot", I think what she does is very pre-meditated and requires some smarts. But lthere are lots of smart people who are nuts. I looked at her Tik, looked at her Insta(she invited us) - she's a total fucking narcissist Displays the maturity of the average 17-19 year old.
It's one child and it's his child(maybe). Does he get to see the child? If they have more interaction than him picking up the kid then that is on her.
She does need counseling. Not sure what part of her actions or inactions should be supported. SHe's rolling like a dumb-ass through this life.