Your view on ménage à trois et. all
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If two hot friends of yours asked you to experience it with you, you would say no?Galen said:If it was his SO, he would have to be seriously fucked in the head to not see a problem with that. Semen swapping or however you want to simplify it
Well, I guess that's their trade. Not my kind of thing though. You don't live close to the Green River, do you?I.C.Water said:uhhhh like 3 years ago my friends sorta nuts we where leavin a bar next thing i knew there was a hooker in my car unziping my pants
I have to be thankful for porn, its how I learned what sex really is.Galen said:Porn is probably half the problem now that it's readily accessible, and that youth are very impressionable.
I sound 4 times my age.
Of course not, I am saying that as a person who has been in a relationship for almost 2 years. Ontop of that, I would never feel right about it, it would impact on me aswell as them. It's not something I could wash off.fly said:
I prefer good old banter and romance with the serenading and whatnot to fidelity.
I think that if you are secure enough in your relationship and are both curious to try it then it is up to the couple. Would I like to see my husband having sexd with another woman...no, but sex is not just about penetration (which is the part that would bother me most for some reason) and there are a lot of sexual actions that as long as I was involved I think that I would be ok with it. I know he loves me and I trust that when it is all over we will be the ones leaving together. Now if he did the same thing without me knowing or being involved I'd cut Mr. Winky off...
JJ Lady said:
Note to self: don't piss off JJ. Winky attached = good.
Being single and having a threesome (whatever combination suits you) is totally different from being in a realtionship and having one. I agree with JJ's statement above, and admit that yea, I'd feel more comfortable with another woman than another man, cause I'd probably feel more competition with another guy there. But if we were ever in that situation I know that I trust her enough to know that at the end of the evening we would be the ones going home together. If you don't trust eachother enough to know that, then you should definitly not participate in any kind of activity like that. The doubt in your mind would tear you apart.
I do think that one of the most important things is that whatever the group makeup, there has to be some ground rules laid to make sure that everyone is on the same page as to how far each is allowed to go. And the couple should make sure that they are focused more on eachother than the third person. It should not be something that is just thrown together on a whim. It should be well talked out ahead of time to ensure that someone isn't accidentally hurt (emotionally). The point of the threesome should be to highten the sexual experience for the couple, not so that one of them can screw another person without getting in trouble. How that works out between the couple is up to them.
It's not my thing. Two women, three men, four midgets, five sheep.....I'm not into it at all. This should affirm April's opinion that I'm gay, but I stand firm in my gayness.
I mean.....nevermind.
I agree that people should find one partner and stick with them, not because I was raised that way or because I think it's tied into some deep religious principle, but because I think that people were intended to be that way. If an animal has a capacity for something that transcends normal animal thought, I'm pretty sure there is a reason for it.
I don't even think of it as sexual promiscuity. Sleeping with many single partners is promiscuity, sleeping with more than one at the same time is a perversion. Perverted people make me nervous, like they're looking at my mouth and picturing me tied up in a well in their basement. They make me uncomfortable.
And if you think about it there are few things that actually separate us from monkeys, so we better grab on to what we can. Though I admit I don't know if monkeys actually have threesomes, it just seems like it supports my argument.
I mean.....nevermind.
I agree that people should find one partner and stick with them, not because I was raised that way or because I think it's tied into some deep religious principle, but because I think that people were intended to be that way. If an animal has a capacity for something that transcends normal animal thought, I'm pretty sure there is a reason for it.
I don't even think of it as sexual promiscuity. Sleeping with many single partners is promiscuity, sleeping with more than one at the same time is a perversion. Perverted people make me nervous, like they're looking at my mouth and picturing me tied up in a well in their basement. They make me uncomfortable.
And if you think about it there are few things that actually separate us from monkeys, so we better grab on to what we can. Though I admit I don't know if monkeys actually have threesomes, it just seems like it supports my argument.
Sp`ange
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Morally, I think it's wrong. Call me old fashioned if you want, but I agree that sex is about a man and woman who are wholly devoted to each other.
Logically, it just seems like a bad idea. Statistics, common sense, and the people I've talked to have all said that it will destroy your relationship. I can't believe people think it'll just be fun and not affect them. To me, that's like shoving a lit stick of dynamite down your throat and saying it'll taste great. There are way too many ways it could fail, and human nature is in favor of all of those reasons coming to pass.
Logically, it just seems like a bad idea. Statistics, common sense, and the people I've talked to have all said that it will destroy your relationship. I can't believe people think it'll just be fun and not affect them. To me, that's like shoving a lit stick of dynamite down your throat and saying it'll taste great. There are way too many ways it could fail, and human nature is in favor of all of those reasons coming to pass.