As in, most Americans don't think the government should provide everything in their lives, you guys are generally a lot more individualistic than many Europeans.
I think independent is the right word. Individualistic would ignore the fact that many people have a very strong community focus. It's primarily in the big cities that you see the "me me me" attitude. But generally yes, the idea that government should provide everything is goddamn retarded and we make no bones about telling everyone this.