I know, I'm such a p*ssy. And an asshole. I demand things of people. Like dignity. The college girls I hung with were models, and had self respect. You were lucky to end up with one. Not because they were hot, but because they had strong character. You couldn't just stick your c*ck out and wait for them to fall on their knees. That crap makes me sick. I have to admire or respect someone or they aren't worth my time. Plain and simple. I can't stomach weakness or fragile character.
I don't have a problem with premarital sex or even casual sex, I have a problem with pathetic people. And someone who pines for validation or succumbs to social stigma is a pathetic person. If it's truly what you want to do have at it, but I don't think that's the case 90% of the time. I think most people do it for attention, to fit in and be a part of the "hip" crowd. Blow.