Interesting.
After lengthy discussion, I am apparently wrong in my assessment. We are, in fact, NOT dis-engaged. She was merely saying that until I fix my problems, we are indefinately postponing the wedding. Her previous statements and reasoning are still valid, but taken out of context. While she does not appreciate my lack of friends, my "clutchiness", my family, or the way I argue, she maintains that she wants to spend the rest of her life with me. Once all of these improper character traits are eliminated, she plans on getting married. In addition, she does apologize for her drunken behavior, but assures me it was completely my fault. I apologize for the misunderstanding.
I am still moving my shit out of her place, and have asked for the ring back. Damn bitches are crazy.