I've had a whole lot of bad stuff happen in the past few weeks due to either me or my wife or her family misunderstanding our roles. I've finally understood mine and because of that I'm back with my wife and we're looking for a new home together.
My roles are Father first then husband then son then emplyoee. It sounds easy to live by your roles but it's hard sometimes. I've clashed with my inlaws very badly lately because they want my wife to be a daughter before being a wife and that's not allowed now. The whole purpose of the father giving the bride to the husband is to recognize that now the bride will always be a wife before a daughter. Anyways. My roles were out of whack so I'm fixing them. I'm moving back to my old job position because work was cutting into my family time and the stress of trying to balance everything was starting to take it's toll on me. Oddly enough I'm happier now than I have been in a long time. So is my wife and son. Enough blogging.
What are your roles?
My roles are Father first then husband then son then emplyoee. It sounds easy to live by your roles but it's hard sometimes. I've clashed with my inlaws very badly lately because they want my wife to be a daughter before being a wife and that's not allowed now. The whole purpose of the father giving the bride to the husband is to recognize that now the bride will always be a wife before a daughter. Anyways. My roles were out of whack so I'm fixing them. I'm moving back to my old job position because work was cutting into my family time and the stress of trying to balance everything was starting to take it's toll on me. Oddly enough I'm happier now than I have been in a long time. So is my wife and son. Enough blogging.
What are your roles?