Baby Teach them to tattle or teach them to fight back?

or for anyone who doesnt need it.

Only reason to know krav manga is if you need to quickly and violently disable or potentially kill people. So, military, personal security and defense, thats about it...

My buddy got his black belt in it after being attacked by an addict on PCP. He's an EMT in Vegas and has had to defend himself inside the moving ambulance many times.

Totally overboard for a kid, I was just trollin
 
Every jurisdiction is different, but back when i did EMS, you got a violent person, they got a cop escort in the back of the bus with em.

Most the time it would be one ambulance would come for the stabber, and one for the stabee. Or the dude who got shot robbing someones house. One EMT in back, maybe two stabilizing them, and 3-4 cops sitting there ready to shoot their ass if they started any shit.
 
He has a friend who is now missing his left hand from a home invasion in vegas. Little white girl rang the bell told him she was lost. He opened the door and 3 giant black dudes with guns popped out. He grabbed the one guy's shotgun and shot another with his pistol (he always carried) before the guy pulled the trigger and took his hand.
 
You called me an idiot so I called you one back. Seriously don't take well to that. And read above to see why I feel how I do. You are a sexist jerk though and I'll stand by that.

You actually believe it is sexist to say that moms coddle their kids more than dads? lol. Welcome to reality I guess. I hope you enjoy your stay. What a kneejerk reaction in the face of entire fucking mountains of evidence supporting my viewpoint.
 
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There isn't just a black and white IMO when it comes to kids fighting. A hit isn't always a very violent thing and doesn't always require a punch back. I've watched a few times where my kid was hit or punched or something and the other kid just kind of bounced off. He can defend himself if needed, but after dealing with some physically violent crap at a younger age, I do not ever believe that a hit always requires a hit back.

Sarc is right, you don't understand.

Not all kids are bullies, boys test each other in the playground constantly. Sports, hitting, whatever.. you gotta fight back. You don't even have to win and you'll earn the other kids respect for at least trying to stand your ground, then they'll get along fine unless they decide another test is in order to make sure they still stand firm.

The easy targets that do nothing get run over and they become outcasts.
 
So you guys are really believing that EVERY SINGLE TIME A KID GETS HIT THEY NEED TO HIT BACK?

If so then yeah, I will never understand. My dad never taught that either so I guess we're all a bunch of dumb coddling idiots.

Personally I am all for defending, but to hit every single time you get hit? Nope don't get it - and I am honestly very glad my boy doesn't hit every single time he gets hit and that the majority of the boys do not hit back when getting punched. They may shove them aside, but not every hit gets a hit back. Especially the bigger kids (like my son) just seem to ignore it.

The dads on the playground seem just as okay with that as the moms too.
 
So you guys are really believing that EVERY SINGLE TIME A KID GETS HIT THEY NEED TO HIT BACK?

If so then yeah, I will never understand. My dad never taught that either so I guess we're all a bunch of dumb coddling idiots.

Personally I am all for defending, but to hit every single time you get hit? Nope don't get it - and I am honestly very glad my boy doesn't hit every single time he gets hit and that the majority of the boys do not hit back when getting punched. They may shove them aside, but not every hit gets a hit back. Especially the bigger kids (like my son) just seem to ignore it.

The dads on the playground seem just as okay with that as the moms too.

You have no idea what we're talking about here. Go make us some sandwiches.
 
You actually believe it is sexist to say that moms coddle their kids more than dads? lol. Welcome to reality I guess. I hope you enjoy your stay. What a kneejerk reaction in the face of entire fucking mountains of evidence supporting my viewpoint.

I don't think it's sexist at all. A boy needs a strong positive male role model and I also agree that if someone hits you, fucking right you should hit back. No matter what
 
You actually believe it is sexist to say that moms coddle their kids more than dads? lol. Welcome to reality I guess. I hope you enjoy your stay. What a kneejerk reaction in the face of entire fucking mountains of evidence supporting my viewpoint.

That's not what I thought was sexist though. Trying to explain my view is lost on you so kind of pointless to go into.

It's your point of view to think that men have to fight and women don't get it. It's my point of view that the strong men in my life don't agree with you :)
 
vanilla-man has gotten bold now that he's married. He's a wildcard, a renegade, a loose cannon. He says what he wants!
 
That's not what I thought was sexist though. Trying to explain my view is lost on you so kind of pointless to go into.

It's your point of view to think that men have to fight and women don't get it. It's my point of view that the strong men in my life don't agree with you :)

They don't have to agree with me. In their heads they understand exactly what I am talking about. All men do. No matter what their mouth tells you, they would rather fight than be pushed around. I can tell you one thing, if your son gets pushed around and doesn't push back with authoritative consistency, he will be labeled a weak link. Forever, or until he responds to instigation with equal or greater force. That's how it works. People aren't immune to pack order.

Men in particular are primal, competitive animals. We size each other up and identify each other's weaknesses all day every day, even when we don't necessarily realize that we are doing it. It's an instinctive behavior. The strongest survive to breed. Hipsters can't erase hundreds of thousands of years of evolution. Weak men are targets. Physically, emotionally, and professionally. Jesus thought he could just turn the other cheek, and he was promptly nailed to a board. Gandhi championed nonviolence and purity of heart and was beaten and eventually murdered. Men don't like wimpy men. I'm not making this stuff up.

Send Dom to school with chains around his wrists and spiked collar and knuckle guards and I bet he will instantly be viewed as an alpha. Especially after tearing out someone's jugular and then eating their heart.
 
Enroll him in self defense classes. TKD or Karate or BJJ. Somewhere were he can be taught discipline with the skills to fight back the right way, and have it ingrained in him over and over ever week. Plus the social aspect is great.

are you saying he racks disciprine?