I guess my point is this: If your credit sucks and you've relied on bankruptcy multiple times then you are doing something wrong. Find out what that thing is and stop doing it.
I *was* doing it wrong. I filed for bankruptcy and learned from it. I have something like $30k in revolving credit available to me now, and my outstanding debt to credit cards is something like $300.
And it seemed that your original point was that bad credit destroys your life and that's just totally incorrect.