Bubbles said:I know, he promised to go shopping with me. After my queer eye style makeover he's all Fly's.
Oh dear... charging up the camera in advanced.
Bubbles said:I know, he promised to go shopping with me. After my queer eye style makeover he's all Fly's.
April23 said:Ryo should watch American Psycho... take some tips.
you get chances all the time, you just aren't taking advantage of them. The hot cashier in the cafe at work? Insult her. The chick at the gym? Tell her she looks great, but should spend more time toning her abs. Etc. Practice, practice, practice...Ryokurin said:Tried the being a dick part, now she thinks im selfcentered. I even stuck with it when she pointed it out, just reinforced it. I dont get alot of chances. thats my biggest issue.
Sarcasmo said:I just realized I wrote "all at the same time" twice in the last few sentences. I hate that crap.
fly said:Exactly. Chicks crave attention. When you not only DONT give it to them, but give them the cold shoulder, you might as well be waving crack in front of Tyrone.
LOL BATEMAN
Ryokurin said:Well, im saying that because just about everytime the subject comes up and I say I have no dateing experience thats when things go south because im seen as kind of weird. I know its nothing, but I feel like a straight up tard when people my age talk about their onenight stands or relationships and I have zilch.
gottoys? said:I don't think that is true in 'all' cases. I have heard this same remark from guys - basically 'player' guys.
I am the type that takes things literal - if I was given the cold shoulder I would take it that the person wasn't interested in me and ignore them and move on. I am also the type that doesn't like to much attention - thus another reason I wouldn't want to get married and be the center of attention.
But - are most girls really like that? I never really paid attention.
Yar, most women somehow get the 'desperate' signal if a guy pays attention to them long enoughApril23 said:I never thought it worked either, until my guy friends said... "hey watch this"
gottoys? said:It's not the geeks that I would be worried about ... it's the perverts and freaks.
ChikkenNoodul said:Yar, most women somehow get the 'desperate' signal if a guy pays attention to them long enough
Of course then after they get married they complain non-stop about how their guy doesn't pay them enough attention
April23 said:I never thought it worked either, until my guy friends said... "hey watch this"
In addition to you proving it's true... It's a dating evolution, if you will. You have to crawl before you can marry. Then you'll crawl away kicking and screaming...kiwi said:I can totally see it happening, but don't see how it could involve into a long term relationship. If that had happened to me, I might go after him just to prove I could get him, but after that, the fun would be over and I could move on.
why_ask_why said:there is no requirement to be an asshole to pick up chicks...I've never done it and never had a problem...I've always relied on self confidence and a good sense of humor mixed with some flirting...being able to make a chick laugh gets you 75% of the way there in my experience
why_ask_why said:there is no requirement to be an asshole to pick up chicks...I've never done it and never had a problem...I've always relied on self confidence and a good sense of humor mixed with some flirting...being able to make a chick laugh gets you 75% of the way there in my experience
April23 said:So is that how clowns get into my pants so easily.. since childhood?
why_ask_why said:there is no requirement to be an asshole to pick up chicks...I've never done it and never had a problem...I've always relied on self confidence and a good sense of humor mixed with some flirting...being able to make a chick laugh gets you 75% of the way there in my experience