FYI RIP ETFC

[Mrs. Valve]

<3

 

[Wessels]

@fly @APRIL

for some reason the forum came up chronological when i refreshed, and this was the first thread

http://www.uselessforums.com/threads/new-addition-to-our-family.8358/

"eddie" named after eddie murphy's arrival way back in 2007.... unfortunately the pics are dead.

I don't go in the spam thread often. When I did earlier I saw a post about him while he was still alive

 

[Petunia]

@APRIL how are you doing....?

 

[APRIL]

@APRIL how are you doing....?

Thanks for checking in on me.

I feel fucking nuts, like crazy cat lady nuts because I miss him so freaking much and am still choking up at memories of him.

No matter who/what is lost, a loss is a loss and it hurts differently for everyone.

 

[plot]

Thanks for checking in on me.

I feel fucking nuts, like crazy cat lady nuts because I miss him so freaking much and am still choking up at memories of him.

No matter who/what is lost, a loss is a loss and it hurts differently for everyone.

Maybe these will help:

The Worst Things to Say to Someone in Grief
1. At least she lived a long life, many people die young
2. He is in a better place
3. She brought this on herself
4. There is a reason for everything
5. Aren’t you over him yet, he has been dead for awhile now
6. You can have another child still
7. She was such a good person God wanted her to be with him
8. I know how you feel
9. She did what she came here to do and it was her time to go
10. Be strong

 

[Mr. Argumentor]

Kitty...

 

[Petunia]

Thanks for checking in on me.

I feel fucking nuts, like crazy cat lady nuts because I miss him so freaking much and am still choking up at memories of him.

No matter who/what is lost, a loss is a loss and it hurts differently for everyone.

awww kitten. im so sorry. i can't even imagine....
posivibes headed your way.

 

[APRIL]

awww kitten. im so sorry. i can't even imagine....
posivibes headed your way.

I feel totally crazy because like... this isn't even a human I'm mourning over, but I feel like I should wear black.

 

[my little brony]

7. She was such a good person God wanted her to be with him

if someone said that to me after a loved one died I should not be held responsible for what happens afterwards

 

[tre]

I feel totally crazy because like... this isn't even a human I'm mourning over, but I feel like I should wear black.

well black is slimming, so that's probably just a good idea for you anyways.

 

[tre]

i also make inappropriate jokes at funerals, its how i cope.

 

[Jehannum]

We got home today from a car show in Williams, AZ, and found that Lily's fish (Cayden) had died, probably on account of the shitty way the kids treated the vacation feeders.

She's broken :/

 

[Ledboots]

 

[APRIL]

We got home today from a car show in Williams, AZ, and found that Lily's fish (Cayden) had died, probably on account of the shitty way the kids treated the vacation feeders.

She's broken :/

Not knowing how old she is, does she understand the concept of death?

 

[Jehannum]

Not knowing how old she is, does she understand the concept of death?

She's 6, but she understands that when pets get sick, they can die.

 

[strawberry love]

I feel totally crazy because like... this isn't even a human I'm mourning over, but I feel like I should wear black.

Do it. It means something to you.

 

[APRIL]

Do it. It means something to you.

You're right. I've noticed giving in to the crazy while grieving has helped me feel better. For example, I bought lots of things for his memory. Photobook, fracture print, memory log, and actual paper prints of him to hang up.

Loco.

 

[Petunia]

You're right. I've noticed giving in to the crazy while grieving has helped me feel better. For example, I bought lots of things for his memory. Photobook, fracture print, memory log, and actual paper prints of him to hang up.

Loco.

do what makes YOU feel right

 

[Mr. Argumentor]

Showed Ladybutt ETFC's last pic. Told her it was the last pic. She cried.

 

[strawberry love]

You're right. I've noticed giving in to the crazy while grieving has helped me feel better. For example, I bought lots of things for his memory. Photobook, fracture print, memory log, and actual paper prints of him to hang up.

Loco.

It's not crazy. Don't minimize your very real feelings. :hugs: