So here's the deal. I think I'm having my mid midlife crisis. I'm at the point in my life that I'm trying to weigh out the benefits of money and family. I'm currently living in Tampa and making a very very good amount on money in my job. The issue I'm having is that all of my family is in other locations. A majority of my family is in New England and my parents are in KS. It's difficult to spend much of my vacation time in either location. I'm starting to feel guilty that I don't see them everyday. I really do wish that I could be next to them but I find it hard to move next to them and adjust my lifestyle. Do you think it's better to have a job where you are making lots of money or one that you are able to see your family every day? Now I know that I could relocate to either on of the areas to be next to family but I know I wouldn't be able to make what I'm making now. Any thoughts or experiences in this area?