We all know plenty of people who get caught up in destructive relationships and stay there for years. Its like battered women syndrome. Live in shit long enough and it starts to feel warm and comforting.JJ Lady said:Meh...I think we all put up with a lot of shit from our significant others. And If I just told you a few stoires and only about the bad stuff (I am a WoW widow) then someone woudl be telling me the same thing. I'm sure that all of us in relationships could take 5 stories or when we were the most pissed off at the other and everyone woudl be like...OMG you are crazy to put up with it. BUt then if we told 5 of the stories that made us fall for that person in the first place everyone would be saying the opposite. I don't know what the rest of Dirk's relationship is like but if it that horrible I figure he'd probably end it....or else she will get curious and sign on and see these threads and take care of it for him
I know I've been there. You stay out of comfort. As a rule, guys hate conflict and will do anything to avoid it. Prime exmaple (currently a bad one, but overall true), how many good friends has bast gotten in a fight with? It rarely happens. Guys don't fight cause we hate conflict.