Take all the money you're going to spend on the wedding and go on vacation. I had a big wedding and the day is a blur. I wasn't drunk either. It's like the record button wasn't pushed in all the way. The same for my wife.
Actually Ryan and I have already taken two top notch very spendy vacations together. I want to throw a really nice party for my family and friends and then hide out in a cabin in the woods for a week.