Shouldn't it traditionally be the wife's church (or choice) as to where the ceremony is? I know that's what my sister said when she got married. Some of her inlaws left their county (county, not country) for the first time in there lives to attend the wedding in Cleveland (from PA).
that's crazy talk. that's just because the bride usually gets what she wants, and the groom typically doesn't care nor hold any emotional attachment to something.
seriously...the way it usually goes is who has the stronger faith, or any faith at all, or who doesn't care...but it's each person's choice.