So the wife's fucking son is hasn't changed at all since the last time we posted about this crap. In my opinion he's gotten worse.
Now that he's 18, he seems to have this ego about himself that he can do whatever he wants, whenever he wants. I basically have a 18 year old leeching off of us. He still has no job, and there's been zero sign of him even attempting to look for one. He has no education, and is procrastinating on even applying for an evaluation to begin his GED. He does nothing around the house except a few dishes here and there. We have recently found two GPS systems in his room. He has no car, no reason at all to have those, so I'm fairly sure he's stealing other people's shit to fund whatever. I also catch him from time to time on my webcam with motion detection on, going through our room looking for whatever. He also recently took money off his younger 7 year old brother, tricking him by saying he would pay him back. The kid has never paid a debt in his life.
He trashes his room. We recently bought a queen bed for the spare room for when my parents visited last year. After they left, the wife wanted him to have the bed in his room. I was ok with that. Since then he has slept on that bed without a sheet a bunch of times soiling the mattress and roughing it up. He also went through a phase of sleeping with a down comforter without a cover, same with the pillows. Absolute filth.
Now my biggest problem here? Nothing is changing. Nothing at all. So much so it's actually getting worse. What makes it even more frustrating for me is that his mother doesn't seem to give a shit. Well sometimes she does. Like when he doesn't come home to see his brother of the school bus, and his brother is sent back to school and one of us has to leave work early to go get him. Then she cares. Then she comes up with all the good plans to solve this riddle. Yet then she proceeds to forget about it all and everything goes back to shit again. I'm mad as hell because I'm sick of this punk living in my home, the home I work hard to pay for, and I have absolutely no control over this kid myself. There is nothing I can do short of leaving this place and living by myself. Obviously not an option.
This kid has been nothing but a royal pain in the ass ever since I've known him.
/rant
ugh...
Now that he's 18, he seems to have this ego about himself that he can do whatever he wants, whenever he wants. I basically have a 18 year old leeching off of us. He still has no job, and there's been zero sign of him even attempting to look for one. He has no education, and is procrastinating on even applying for an evaluation to begin his GED. He does nothing around the house except a few dishes here and there. We have recently found two GPS systems in his room. He has no car, no reason at all to have those, so I'm fairly sure he's stealing other people's shit to fund whatever. I also catch him from time to time on my webcam with motion detection on, going through our room looking for whatever. He also recently took money off his younger 7 year old brother, tricking him by saying he would pay him back. The kid has never paid a debt in his life.
He trashes his room. We recently bought a queen bed for the spare room for when my parents visited last year. After they left, the wife wanted him to have the bed in his room. I was ok with that. Since then he has slept on that bed without a sheet a bunch of times soiling the mattress and roughing it up. He also went through a phase of sleeping with a down comforter without a cover, same with the pillows. Absolute filth.
Now my biggest problem here? Nothing is changing. Nothing at all. So much so it's actually getting worse. What makes it even more frustrating for me is that his mother doesn't seem to give a shit. Well sometimes she does. Like when he doesn't come home to see his brother of the school bus, and his brother is sent back to school and one of us has to leave work early to go get him. Then she cares. Then she comes up with all the good plans to solve this riddle. Yet then she proceeds to forget about it all and everything goes back to shit again. I'm mad as hell because I'm sick of this punk living in my home, the home I work hard to pay for, and I have absolutely no control over this kid myself. There is nothing I can do short of leaving this place and living by myself. Obviously not an option.
This kid has been nothing but a royal pain in the ass ever since I've known him.
/rant
ugh...
it's ALL BS, but what i'd worry most about is the stealing stuff. sounds like it's just a matter of time before he trades one cot in for another...but i'm not sure he'll much care for the other cot. his life is going down the tubes QUICKLY. 
