so you've raised a kid without spanking? No? so, you were saying what then? that's what I thought
Just so your little brain understands this, I was not the one who put that idea to you, hence I do not need to held accountable to it. Fact of the matter is that ever child needs to be raised dynamically. Not every child acts the same, and therefor doesn't require the same discipline.
I think what you are blurring here is how you wish to raise your child if you were to have one with how everyone else should raise their children.