I just got off the phone with the nurses' station on my mother's floor in the hospital for a second time. The second call was prompted by my father telling me a bunch of bad mojo that happened last night that they neglected to tell me. I asked why none of that was mentioned to me on the phone the FIRST time, and they said "it's because your'e not here to come in and see her. It's not like you can do anything about the situation where you are in Virginia". I told the nurse I hope her kids move away from her right before she needs them the most.