So, Liam and I were discussing just a second ago about jealousy within relationships. And not in an argument for those evil grinning tards out there! It was that I'm pretty darned passive and usually just let the man do whatever he wants in terms of going out, boys time, etc... And I said that maybe that's what happened in my last relationship. I didn't care when he went out, even for weekend trips, etc. I never called to "check up" on him like I see so many womenz do. I never understood why?! You're out having fun and you have to answer calls from your S.O. ..."soooo, whatt're yooou doin?" I'm mean really. People need their time with their friends and away from their home life. It's a respect that I've always had. My ex said I was the only one amongst his friend's S.O'.'s that didn't do that, (calling him while he was out. And now look, we've divorced and I find out that he's been a cheatin' bastard the whole time anyway. So, my question is, how effective it is when a woman makes herself a bit more nosy with her man and when he goes out? Is her phone presence enough to make a man stop and think sometimes? How much is too much, to make her a meddling bitch? This goes got men, too. And WHO DOES THIS??