I appreciate everyones oppinion, i do. Flaming, i appreciate your ability to tell it like it is, i'm not that balsy and i hate the idea of making someone uncomfortable or upset. To explain how I'M handling this.
1. i see her every now and again at the bar, and i still say hi and i give her a hug, and i go about my day. In my opinion she screwed up, and so did i, but she didn't play it the right way AT ALL. If you think something is happening, express it. There were no signs to us "Dating". I'm sorry i hurt her feelings, or upset her but it was for the most part a misunderstanding and going back to explain myself now would make it worse. It will pass, and if it doesn't.. well i don't live here.
2 & 3 - i liket his coffee shop and i can brush off what they throw out as being playful, or just bullshit and thats what i do. No harm, no foul and everyones happy.
Eileen, i'm very much like you, i can't be as brash as flaming, but without people like him in the world we would never have wars, or crime or evil in general and that would destroy our society.
I dont' want our society destroyed!! Do YOU? Can you imagine if everyone was as nice as you and me? can you imagine the forum!??!?! Fly would make the sign at teh top a daisy or something and everyone would turn GAY.