Oh, I just felt to share.
1. My son knocked up a young lady 16 years ago - they didn't get married(probably for the best), never lived together - but we have maintained great contact with our grand-daughter. 8 days a month for the first 5 years. Every 1-2 month now.
2. Son marries someone else and has a child a year later.
3. It has recently been brought to our attention:
a. We suck because we wanted him to marry the first gal, just so things wouldn't be f'd up. Well yeah, in theory . .
b. We suck because we at one time were going to adopt our grandchild(girl).
c. We have OBVIOUSLY considered the second woman a homewreck and slut, because her dad told her that's how it would be. Odd, we thought there never was a home to be broken.
d. We obviously have plans to LEAVE ALL OUR FUCKING MONEY TO THAT BASTARD CHILD!!! Truly, DIL suggested we just go ahead and do that. hmmph!
e. We're just toxic AF for all of the above.
I'm the most offended they didn't have the decency to tell us this shit years ago. Feel so used.
Sad that the DIL has such unbridled hatred toward her 2 children's half-sister. Whom they have met.
*The baby mama - great gal, married a nice guy, had another baby with him, seems one big happy family. I swear the BM is such a nice person, she'd welcome those half-sibs into HER house in a heartbeat. Oy vay.
1. My son knocked up a young lady 16 years ago - they didn't get married(probably for the best), never lived together - but we have maintained great contact with our grand-daughter. 8 days a month for the first 5 years. Every 1-2 month now.
2. Son marries someone else and has a child a year later.
3. It has recently been brought to our attention:
a. We suck because we wanted him to marry the first gal, just so things wouldn't be f'd up. Well yeah, in theory . .
b. We suck because we at one time were going to adopt our grandchild(girl).
c. We have OBVIOUSLY considered the second woman a homewreck and slut, because her dad told her that's how it would be. Odd, we thought there never was a home to be broken.
d. We obviously have plans to LEAVE ALL OUR FUCKING MONEY TO THAT BASTARD CHILD!!! Truly, DIL suggested we just go ahead and do that. hmmph!
e. We're just toxic AF for all of the above.
I'm the most offended they didn't have the decency to tell us this shit years ago. Feel so used.
Sad that the DIL has such unbridled hatred toward her 2 children's half-sister. Whom they have met.
*The baby mama - great gal, married a nice guy, had another baby with him, seems one big happy family. I swear the BM is such a nice person, she'd welcome those half-sibs into HER house in a heartbeat. Oy vay.