dbzeag you need to work on releasing the guilt. You're a great guy and shouldn't be punished because you chose your own path rather than one someone else pictured for you.
Trust me, if it were that easy...
dbzeag you need to work on releasing the guilt. You're a great guy and shouldn't be punished because you chose your own path rather than one someone else pictured for you.
I have always thought of myself as gay, but I have lots of guilt (obviously) about it. I never wanted to or still don't want to be gay. I would rather have the same frame of mind as 95% of the population.
I have never tried a girl, but have always wanted to. I have had the chance to, but never could rise to the occasion.
My family is accepting if I never talk about anything about relationships, sex, homosexuality, dating, kissing, holding hands, or anything like that.
have you ever been a rice queen?
Teh porn you sent us had chocolate and vanilla swirl.
dbzeag you need to work on releasing the guilt. You're a great guy and shouldn't be punished because you chose your own path rather than one someone else pictured for you.
how do you feel about trannies?
Trust me, if it were that easy...
Sounds like don't ask don't tell Family edition.
I cannot understand why you would feel guilty.
Some children will adopt a lisp as a means of gaining attention. Other children will begin to lisp after they have experienced unusual stress or trauma. This behavior is part of a regression into a more secure period and can include other types of regressive behaviors such as bed wetting or wanting to sleep with the light on in the bedroom.
Hmmm just reading some data it looks like Functional speech impediments with no known cause affects 10 percent of the population.
Resource:
http://www.answers.com/topic/lisp
Although I can only begin to imagine what can cause a gay man to begin lisping, I think this paragraph:
Can give us a glimpse into why this phenomenon occurs. I imagine it begins with some gay men who might experience severe psychological trauma from parents, or peers that could cause them to initially revert to a similar state. Now it might be interesting to see if other regressive behaviors also result from potential psychological trauma from events such as coming out, or other trauma that is generally experienced by members of the gay community over their identity. It could explain certain other behaviors that the gay community exhibits.
I find it all very fascinating.
Time and time again through multiple sources (whether it is media or friends or even interpersonal communications with relatives) that being gay is not normal, and having it been told that it is a choice and even having groups that change and convert you "back to normal", you question one facet about yourself that is an intrigel part of your existance. When others tell you and show you and make you believe through violence or ostracism that one factor of your humanity should be shunned, you feel guilty for being that way.
It is the same for mullato babies in the 60's to wear lots of sun screen and to never been outdoors so they could stay as light as they could because of the torture they would endure if they were percieved as black. It is why there is a concept of "a closet". It is why the highest rate of suicides in teenagers is with homosexuals. It is why the highest rate of depression in adults is with homosexuals.
How would you know anything about being a homosexual? I think you should exit this thread immediately. If Shalimar was worried about this forum so much he had changed his screenname, certainly you shouldn't be posting in a thread titled "Ask a gay man anything"
Guilt is a subconscious emotion like happiness or surprise. at least that's how i feelI don't know if homosexuality is a choice but I do know that guilt is a choice.
Guilt is a subconscious emotion like happiness or surprise. at least that's how i feel
Wow, this is tremendously interesting! Thank you very much for your information and ideas!! I will definitely look into that
<--- in a heterosexual way of course
This guilt is too deeply rooted and matured and fertilized to be taken away.
I don't know if homosexuality is a choice but I do know that guilt is a choice.
Guilt is a subconscious emotion like happiness or surprise. at least that's how i feel