We had fun at ours. Took a personality test and she pointed out some obvious things about our personalities which we didn't really think of. It was a fun exercise. Not saying that it made our marrige work....I think that living together before hand is why we aren't miserable now. People today are crazy to get married without living together fist now a days. How do you know if you can stand it if you don't try it first? Its a lot better to realize that you shouldn't be together or cant live together before you get married then after. Thats my opinon anyway.zengirl said:I think the premarital counseling and classes thing is a good idea. Teaching communication and actually sharing your expectations with your partner is essential. There should be more to getting a marriage license than filling out paperwork.