A gay man asks anything
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eileenbunny
Druish Princess
I've tried a lot of different kinds. The migraine causing bit is the biggest part for me. I took the pill in the few months leading up to my wedding because I didn't want to have my period on my wedding night. After seeing what it did to me during an already stressful time, I would rather have had my period on my wedding night than go through that again. It was terrible. Ask Dan, he's scarred for life.
When did you decide the opposite sex was right for you? when did that happen for you that women were attractive? Puberty? Before?
I've also always like women.
What is the fascination with lesbian activities, whether in porn or at the bar or in regular movies with two women holding hands.
2 women
Do you think it's fair the double standard with lesbians vs. gays?
To be honest I've never thought about it before. I guess not.
How would you feel if you saw two men holding hands? Would you make a comment? Would you remember it later in the day or would you just let it pass because it isn't that significant?
Wouldn't/hasn't bothered me in the slightest.
Do you find pregnant women attractive?
Only Kiwi.
Why does everyone love breasts?
I like boobs, but I would'nt call myself obsessed with them.
Another question, I for one am not at all interested in kids. Is this an ingrained thing to desire kids and to procreate?
No, I don't think so. I've always wanted to be father myself, now that I am I know that (for at least me) I made the right choice).
How comfortable are you taking showers in the locker room? Changing in front of people?
To be honest the issue has never come up. I am curious about what is going to happen with hard-core conservatives realizing that there may be a gay man in their health club locker room checking them out, and what they will try to do about it.
Are you interested in anal sex with your partner? Are you interested in recieving anal play from your partner?
Meh.
Do you have a couples night where your partner and you go out for dinner with another couple? Could you make it a couples night with a gay or lesbian couple?
I have several times in the past, but do not currently have any close gay friends.
How pressured are/were you to get married or to date?
When I met Kiwi I just kind of "knew", it worked itself out and I'm very happy with the choice I made.
How pressured are/were you to have kids?
By anyone other than Kiwi? Not at all. By Kiwi? Tons.
How worried are you about getting pregnant or getting a woman pregnant?
Zero, I've got 2 already. Unless I got some OTHER girl pregnant.
Do you always use a condom?
Occasionally, but not often.
Are you more worried about pregnancy or STDs?
Neither, in my case.
I've also always like women.
What is the fascination with lesbian activities, whether in porn or at the bar or in regular movies with two women holding hands.
2 women
Do you think it's fair the double standard with lesbians vs. gays?
To be honest I've never thought about it before. I guess not.
How would you feel if you saw two men holding hands? Would you make a comment? Would you remember it later in the day or would you just let it pass because it isn't that significant?
Wouldn't/hasn't bothered me in the slightest.
Do you find pregnant women attractive?
Only Kiwi.
Why does everyone love breasts?
I like boobs, but I would'nt call myself obsessed with them.
Another question, I for one am not at all interested in kids. Is this an ingrained thing to desire kids and to procreate?
No, I don't think so. I've always wanted to be father myself, now that I am I know that (for at least me) I made the right choice).
How comfortable are you taking showers in the locker room? Changing in front of people?
To be honest the issue has never come up. I am curious about what is going to happen with hard-core conservatives realizing that there may be a gay man in their health club locker room checking them out, and what they will try to do about it.
Are you interested in anal sex with your partner? Are you interested in recieving anal play from your partner?
Meh.
Do you have a couples night where your partner and you go out for dinner with another couple? Could you make it a couples night with a gay or lesbian couple?
I have several times in the past, but do not currently have any close gay friends.
How pressured are/were you to get married or to date?
When I met Kiwi I just kind of "knew", it worked itself out and I'm very happy with the choice I made.
How pressured are/were you to have kids?
By anyone other than Kiwi? Not at all. By Kiwi? Tons.
How worried are you about getting pregnant or getting a woman pregnant?
Zero, I've got 2 already. Unless I got some OTHER girl pregnant.
Do you always use a condom?
Occasionally, but not often.
Are you more worried about pregnancy or STDs?
Neither, in my case.
When did you decide the opposite sex was right for you? when did that happen for you that women were attractive? Puberty? Before?
Sometime around 11-12ish I started thinking boys were cute.
What is the fascination with lesbian activities, whether in porn or at the bar or in regular movies with two women holding hands.
I don't know.
Do you think it's fair the double standard with lesbians vs. gays?
As has been said before, life isn't fair.
How would you feel if you saw two men holding hands? Would you make a comment? Would you remember it later in the day or would you just let it pass because it isn't that significant?
I wouldn't care and I probably wouldn't think about it later.
Do you find pregnant women attractive?
If they were attractive prior to pregnancy. I don't think being pregnant makes you attractive.
Why does everyone love breasts?
They're just cool.
Another question, I for one am not at all interested in kids. Is this an ingrained thing to desire kids and to procreate?
I've always wanted kids and to be a mom and am loving it.
How comfortable are you taking showers in the locker room? Changing in front of people?
I've never taken a shower in a locker room but have no problems changing in front of others.
Are you interested in anal sex with your partner?
Not really.
Do you have a couples night where your partner and you go out for dinner with another couple? Could you make it a couples night with a gay or lesbian couple?
Yea, and as night said, we currently don't have any close friends that are gay but I would go out with them if we did.
How pressured are/were you to get married or to date?
Not much, cause we had already decided to by the time our parents started thinking we should get married or move on.
How pressured are/were you to have kids?
I wasn't, but I'm very good at pressuring others.
How worried are you about getting pregnant or getting a woman pregnant?
Currently not at all, in a few months, extremely, in about 1.5 years I'll be trying to.
Do you always use a condom?
No.
Are you more worried about pregnancy or STDs?
If I have reason to be worried about STDs Knyte has some explaining to do.[/QUOTE]
Sometime around 11-12ish I started thinking boys were cute.
What is the fascination with lesbian activities, whether in porn or at the bar or in regular movies with two women holding hands.
I don't know.
Do you think it's fair the double standard with lesbians vs. gays?
As has been said before, life isn't fair.
How would you feel if you saw two men holding hands? Would you make a comment? Would you remember it later in the day or would you just let it pass because it isn't that significant?
I wouldn't care and I probably wouldn't think about it later.
Do you find pregnant women attractive?
If they were attractive prior to pregnancy. I don't think being pregnant makes you attractive.
Why does everyone love breasts?
They're just cool.
Another question, I for one am not at all interested in kids. Is this an ingrained thing to desire kids and to procreate?
I've always wanted kids and to be a mom and am loving it.
How comfortable are you taking showers in the locker room? Changing in front of people?
I've never taken a shower in a locker room but have no problems changing in front of others.
Are you interested in anal sex with your partner?
Not really.
Do you have a couples night where your partner and you go out for dinner with another couple? Could you make it a couples night with a gay or lesbian couple?
Yea, and as night said, we currently don't have any close friends that are gay but I would go out with them if we did.
How pressured are/were you to get married or to date?
Not much, cause we had already decided to by the time our parents started thinking we should get married or move on.
How pressured are/were you to have kids?
I wasn't, but I'm very good at pressuring others.
How worried are you about getting pregnant or getting a woman pregnant?
Currently not at all, in a few months, extremely, in about 1.5 years I'll be trying to.
Do you always use a condom?
No.
Are you more worried about pregnancy or STDs?
If I have reason to be worried about STDs Knyte has some explaining to do.[/QUOTE]
Another question, I for one am not at all interested in kids. Is this an ingrained thing to desire kids and to procreate?
No. I could care less if I have kids or not
How comfortable are you taking showers in the locker room? Changing in front of people?
If its a very close friend I dont care at all but otherwise never.
Are you interested in anal sex with your partner? Are you interested in recieving anal play from your partner?
I have double standards cause if its with a girl I view it differently but no recieving thank you, lol
Do you have a couples night where your partner and you go out for dinner with another couple? Could you make it a couples night with a gay or lesbian couple?
If I currently had a girl it would not be a problem going out to dinner but no gay bars please.
How pressured are/were you to get married or to date?
none what so ever, my mother went to my best friends wedding and you could tell she would love for me to find someone but I am in no rush
How pressured are/were you to have kids?
Again my mom would be extatic but I told her to look at my brother for the grand kids
How worried are you about getting pregnant or getting a woman pregnant?
Very
Do you always use a condom?
Never but I grew out of the random fuck buddy thing
Are you more worried about pregnancy or STDs?
STD's which is why I stopped sleeping around
Would you want to meet your son's boyfriend if it happened that way?
Close Minded: I doubt I would have a gay child
Would you blame yourself or your training of your kid if he/she was gay?
Actually yes. I have yet to meet a gay friend who didnt have something troubling in there past. I have met a bunch that didnt want to admit it at first but then would always come out and say something bad had happened.
No. I could care less if I have kids or not
How comfortable are you taking showers in the locker room? Changing in front of people?
If its a very close friend I dont care at all but otherwise never.
Are you interested in anal sex with your partner? Are you interested in recieving anal play from your partner?
I have double standards cause if its with a girl I view it differently but no recieving thank you, lol
Do you have a couples night where your partner and you go out for dinner with another couple? Could you make it a couples night with a gay or lesbian couple?
If I currently had a girl it would not be a problem going out to dinner but no gay bars please.
How pressured are/were you to get married or to date?
none what so ever, my mother went to my best friends wedding and you could tell she would love for me to find someone but I am in no rush
How pressured are/were you to have kids?
Again my mom would be extatic but I told her to look at my brother for the grand kids
How worried are you about getting pregnant or getting a woman pregnant?
Very
Do you always use a condom?
Never but I grew out of the random fuck buddy thing
Are you more worried about pregnancy or STDs?
STD's which is why I stopped sleeping around
Would you want to meet your son's boyfriend if it happened that way?
Close Minded: I doubt I would have a gay child
Would you blame yourself or your training of your kid if he/she was gay?
Actually yes. I have yet to meet a gay friend who didnt have something troubling in there past. I have met a bunch that didnt want to admit it at first but then would always come out and say something bad had happened.
Another question, I for one am not at all interested in kids. Is this an ingrained thing to desire kids and to procreate? It seems to be for most people.
How comfortable are you taking showers in the locker room? Changing in front of people? Not very.
Are you interested in anal sex with your partner? Are you interested in recieving anal play from your partner? Hell no, things exit that door for a reason.
Do you have a couples night where your partner and you go out for dinner with another couple? Could you make it a couples night with a gay or lesbian couple? We go out all the time, but don't know many other couples to double date with. Gay or straight makes no difference to me. Unfortunatly most gays I've known only wanna hang out with other gays tho. Us heteros just aren't as much fun I guess.
How pressured are/were you to get married or to date?
I wasn't really. My parents prolly would have preferred that I become a nun rather than date.
How pressured are/were you to have kids? Somewhat pressured. Parents have asked us repeatedly for grandchildren. Most are baffeld when we tell them we aren't planning on having kids. "Why don't you want to have kids?!?!?! Ohhh...you'll change your mind."
How worried are you about getting pregnant or getting a woman pregnant? I worry about impregnating women all the time.
Do you always use a condom? Pillz+++
Are you more worried about pregnancy or STDs? When I was dating I'd worry about both. Now that I'm married...not so much.
How comfortable are you taking showers in the locker room? Changing in front of people? Not very.
Are you interested in anal sex with your partner? Are you interested in recieving anal play from your partner? Hell no, things exit that door for a reason.
Do you have a couples night where your partner and you go out for dinner with another couple? Could you make it a couples night with a gay or lesbian couple? We go out all the time, but don't know many other couples to double date with. Gay or straight makes no difference to me. Unfortunatly most gays I've known only wanna hang out with other gays tho. Us heteros just aren't as much fun I guess.
How pressured are/were you to get married or to date?
I wasn't really. My parents prolly would have preferred that I become a nun rather than date.
How pressured are/were you to have kids? Somewhat pressured. Parents have asked us repeatedly for grandchildren. Most are baffeld when we tell them we aren't planning on having kids. "Why don't you want to have kids?!?!?! Ohhh...you'll change your mind."
How worried are you about getting pregnant or getting a woman pregnant? I worry about impregnating women all the time.
Do you always use a condom? Pillz+++
Are you more worried about pregnancy or STDs? When I was dating I'd worry about both. Now that I'm married...not so much.
i am not a parent of a gay child that i know of, but i do have a brother who recently came out. i have never had a problem with gay people nor do i with my brother, but it is mighty hard to hear when a loved one comes out. i can understand why a gay family member is a tough thing to go through, simply because of the emotions that happen when you're told. in my case, i had a million things i was feeling all at once, and the main feeling was fear of his safety. none of my family so far have a problem with my brother being gay, but it wasn't as easy as going, "i'm gay," and moving on. there are other issues involved with my brother, which make it that much harder...but my point is, no matter how you feel about gay people, it IS hard to hear of a family member coming out. the love is still there, the support is still there, but you have to deal with everything else that comes along with it. it takes time for something that big to settle in.
spange and i had both pondered it before he came out, but it was never something that we KNEW. though when he did come out, i was not surprised at all. it's just not something you WANT to be correct on, you know? i don' tknow if this is just me or what, but i worry about him being gay simply because of the world he has to live in. i know that society has come a long way in acceptance, but he's going to and has already gotten, poor treatment because he is gay. that's the hardest thing as a family member to have to sit with...it makes me so sad to think of someone harming my brother or treating him poorly.
InnerMuse
Flaccid Member
When did you decide the opposite sex was right for you? when did that happen for you that women were attractive? Puberty? Before?
I think drooling over male rockstars contitutes as a decision. That was pre-puberty.
What is the fascination with lesbian activities, whether in porn or at the bar or in regular movies with two women holding hands.
Chicks are hot and curvatious. I will not deny that. I mostly think it's a fantasy thing for straight guys and closet lesbians. As for my personal preferences, I tend to veer from porn unless it's really funny. I believe sex to be a personal and intimate act that should be expressed and shared by two bunnies so that the rabbit populous can multiply by the fucktons and so the next generation of bunnies can rule the world. Damn the roaches for getting a head start, damn them!!
Do you think it's fair the double standard with lesbians vs. gays?
It's not fair. Holding hands is ok, kissing is ok, but don't piss me off by having sex on my back.
How would you feel if you saw two men holding hands? Would you make a comment? Would you remember it later in the day or would you just let it pass because it isn't that significant?
See statement above.
Do you find pregnant women attractive?
Yes. She still has curves, they are just misplaced for 9 months.
One of the best nude models I've ever drawn was pregnant. And she was a hottie.
Why does everyone love breasts?
Well, they are fun to watch and play with.
A fair warning, the quadruple bounce is only achieved in hentai. Don't try it; you'll wind up with black eyes.
They are curvatious and aesthetically pleasing.
UPDATE 9/20:
Another question, I for one am not at all interested in kids. Is this an ingrained thing to desire kids and to procreate?
How comfortable are you taking showers in the locker room? Changing in front of people?
I was never comfortable changing in the locker room. On the other hand, I have flashed friends before so I believe it is safe to say that unless I know you, the birds will remain caged.
Are you interested in anal sex with your partner? Are you interested in recieving anal play from your partner?
Meh...
Do you have a couples night where your partner and you go out for dinner with another couple? Could you make it a couples night with a gay or lesbian couple?
I've done that before. My roommate is a lesbian magnet. We keep telling him to fix his radar... /tisk, tisk, tisk
How pressured are/were you to get married or to date?
Once when my grandmother went around introducing my s.o. at the time as her future grandson-in-law.
As for dating, well, let us say that my father was threatening my guy friends (not boyfirends) while he was in a wheelchair (it's a long story and I'll only tell it if requested.)
How pressured are/were you to have kids?
Thanks Granny...
How worried are you about getting pregnant or getting a woman pregnant?
Condoms AND happy-no-baby-pills AND pull out, damnit!
Do you always use a condom?
^
Are you more worried about pregnancy or STDs?
STDs I did date a sleezball for 4 years.
Would you want to meet your son's boyfriend if it happened that way?
Hell yeah! He'll have to meet my approval just the same. I'd give him the d!@%s eff a$$holes speech from Team America.
Would you blame yourself or your training of your kid if he/she was gay?
Nope.
I think drooling over male rockstars contitutes as a decision. That was pre-puberty.
What is the fascination with lesbian activities, whether in porn or at the bar or in regular movies with two women holding hands.
Chicks are hot and curvatious. I will not deny that. I mostly think it's a fantasy thing for straight guys and closet lesbians. As for my personal preferences, I tend to veer from porn unless it's really funny. I believe sex to be a personal and intimate act that should be expressed and shared by two bunnies so that the rabbit populous can multiply by the fucktons and so the next generation of bunnies can rule the world. Damn the roaches for getting a head start, damn them!!
Do you think it's fair the double standard with lesbians vs. gays?
It's not fair. Holding hands is ok, kissing is ok, but don't piss me off by having sex on my back.
How would you feel if you saw two men holding hands? Would you make a comment? Would you remember it later in the day or would you just let it pass because it isn't that significant?
See statement above.
Do you find pregnant women attractive?
Yes. She still has curves, they are just misplaced for 9 months.
One of the best nude models I've ever drawn was pregnant. And she was a hottie.
Why does everyone love breasts?
Well, they are fun to watch and play with.
A fair warning, the quadruple bounce is only achieved in hentai. Don't try it; you'll wind up with black eyes.
They are curvatious and aesthetically pleasing.
UPDATE 9/20:
Another question, I for one am not at all interested in kids. Is this an ingrained thing to desire kids and to procreate?
How comfortable are you taking showers in the locker room? Changing in front of people?
I was never comfortable changing in the locker room. On the other hand, I have flashed friends before so I believe it is safe to say that unless I know you, the birds will remain caged.
Are you interested in anal sex with your partner? Are you interested in recieving anal play from your partner?
Meh...
Do you have a couples night where your partner and you go out for dinner with another couple? Could you make it a couples night with a gay or lesbian couple?
I've done that before. My roommate is a lesbian magnet. We keep telling him to fix his radar... /tisk, tisk, tisk
How pressured are/were you to get married or to date?
Once when my grandmother went around introducing my s.o. at the time as her future grandson-in-law.
As for dating, well, let us say that my father was threatening my guy friends (not boyfirends) while he was in a wheelchair (it's a long story and I'll only tell it if requested.)
How pressured are/were you to have kids?
Thanks Granny...
How worried are you about getting pregnant or getting a woman pregnant?
Condoms AND happy-no-baby-pills AND pull out, damnit!
Do you always use a condom?
^
Are you more worried about pregnancy or STDs?
STDs I did date a sleezball for 4 years.
Would you want to meet your son's boyfriend if it happened that way?
Hell yeah! He'll have to meet my approval just the same. I'd give him the d!@%s eff a$$holes speech from Team America.
Would you blame yourself or your training of your kid if he/she was gay?
Nope.
So what's your brother's number?
j/k
Yes it is the hardest thing someone can do, coming out of the closet. It disappoints so many people in so many ways you begin to question whether it was worth it. I mean if you stay in the closet, you only hurt yourself. If you tell everyone, you hurt everyone else.
Which leads me to my next question. Would you rather have someone stay in the closet?
j/k
Yes it is the hardest thing someone can do, coming out of the closet. It disappoints so many people in so many ways you begin to question whether it was worth it. I mean if you stay in the closet, you only hurt yourself. If you tell everyone, you hurt everyone else.
Which leads me to my next question. Would you rather have someone stay in the closet?
I don't think anyone really gives a shit unless they start waving a flag in your face and telling you over and over that they're gay.
I'm not gay, so it means nothing to me, but that doesn't mean I have to adopt a Will & Grace attitude and let everyone know I'm straight by those zany and barmy things I do!
Coming out is like great gossip that you have control over. All eyes on me folks, I'm queer! That's great, I'm straight. Perhaps I should constantly wave this in peoples faces too. Oh, and I don't need to pick up a lisp anymore to impress the other gay guys.
I'm not gay, so it means nothing to me, but that doesn't mean I have to adopt a Will & Grace attitude and let everyone know I'm straight by those zany and barmy things I do!
Coming out is like great gossip that you have control over. All eyes on me folks, I'm queer! That's great, I'm straight. Perhaps I should constantly wave this in peoples faces too. Oh, and I don't need to pick up a lisp anymore to impress the other gay guys.
So what's your brother's number?
j/k
Yes it is the hardest thing someone can do, coming out of the closet. It disappoints so many people in so many ways you begin to question whether it was worth it. I mean if you stay in the closet, you only hurt yourself. If you tell everyone, you hurt everyone else.
Which leads me to my next question. Would you rather have someone stay in the closet?
the only disappointment we've had to deal with is how my brother thought he had to apologize, and he assumed that this was going to change his part of the family. which wasn't true. i don't think there's been any disappointment from anyone yet. you just worry about his happiness and safety. that's all. and like i said, there are other issues involved, which makes it harder.
but he's only gay. that's all. he was made this way and we love him for it. there's no WAY we'd want him in the closet...it was too painful for him in there, and i'm sorry it took him till the end of high school to let us know.
and you can't have his number right now because he's happily involved with someone, and we LOVE this guy. he couldn't be better for my brother. i'll let you know if things change, but i hope they don't.
You don't like me and I annoy you, is that right?
Another question, do you believe all gays are lisping queens?
haha, I was just saying that off the cuff. I am happily "married" with my man right now. Thanks for the look out, though
No, he is just sick of hearing about it, here, real life, wherever. From any self described homosexual.You don't like me and I annoy you, is that right?
Another question, do you believe all gays are lisping queens?
haha, I was just saying that off the cuff. I am happily "married" with my man right now. Thanks for the look out, though
i know you were, and i know you are, dearie.
but you're hot, and you just never know...i love setting people up!